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AvMan
February 5th, 2013, 04:26 PM
hey,

Im going through a confusing phase at the moment. I think I might be bi as i do get attracted to guys and girls but im not completely sure yet.

How did you find out? What made you realise for good?
Also, what type of porn do you guys like to watch being bi?

Anonimi
February 5th, 2013, 04:40 PM
i have been watching gay porn for a while, and did some experimentation when i was 9, but i always thought i must be straight or bi, because i had a crush on a girl, the moment that i got a crush on a boy, (around 4 months ago now, still) i realised that i was bisexual for sure.
the only thing that can define if you are or not is in my opinion exactly that, have you had a crush on a boy and a girl, sexually and emotionally (like want to hug, see, be with, and sexual stuff) there is nothing wrong with it, and just do what your heart tells you to do and your mind approves.

teen.jpg
February 5th, 2013, 06:50 PM
The kind of porn you like doesn't define your sexuality. Porn is made to appeal to almost everyone.

And, you just know it. Some people are confused, but I feel like I always knew.

crazypete92
February 5th, 2013, 07:40 PM
i know for my self at the age of 14 i started masturbating, and shortly after gay porn came, and i like it. i would totally have sex with a girl but i have stronger attractions to guys. ive had sex with a guy and enjoyed it. i am 17 now and masturbate all the time to gay porn.

VaughnVoyage
February 6th, 2013, 03:49 AM
You don't necessarily need to worry about identifying your sexuality. Base your relationships on legitimate emotional attraction. If it happens to be of the same gender then so be it. If you notice you have feelings like that for both genders it's a safe bet that you can identify as bisexual (Or pansexual, or any other label under the spectrum of sexuality that I might be unaware off). Or you could just identify as queer which many people do.

AvMan
February 6th, 2013, 12:18 PM
You don't necessarily need to worry about identifying your sexuality. Base your relationships on legitimate emotional attraction. If it happens to be of the same gender then so be it. If you notice you have feelings like that for both genders it's a safe bet that you can identify as bisexual (Or pansexual, or any other label under the spectrum of sexuality that I might be unaware off). Or you could just identify as queer which many people do.

Thanks! I never realised that thats a great idea

Gandalf
February 6th, 2013, 01:51 PM
Thanks! I never realised that thats a great idea

Yh, you'll learn in time what you're interested in, don't be too quick to try and label yourself, and just try and look for the enjoyment of actually learning about yourself. I hated the turmoil confusion brought, but in retrospect, I learnt so much about myself.

If you need any other help just let us know :)

ComfortableInChaos
February 6th, 2013, 11:19 PM
Ummm.... well, I figured out that I was bisexual when I saw this guy at school and he kissed me, and I kissed him back and we kind of both got boners and tht was my first boyfriend. But we never jerked together or jerked each other off or anything, but I mean, we realized we both liked dick. But I still liked tits and pussy. I like watching guys jerk off and watching gay sex. It really 'wakes up' the dragon ;)))