Is it gay if...

[Toby Tenma]

Hey...

So is it gay if I have a crush on a guy? (Asa Butterfield to be precise)
I mean, I am just not sure...

[Syvelocin]

No.
It could be the beginning of something. I thought I was straight until I had my first crush on a girl, then surprise! I'm a lesbian.
But it could also be hormones, especially when you're young teens.

If we must deal with labels, I personally consider gay to be 75-99.99% attraction to the same sex. Labels are something I think are very personal, or at least should be. But you're not gay if you have one crush on a guy and 99 on girls.

Just keep your mind open.

[Hermes96]

its not gay it just means you have a crush on him

[teen.jpg]

Yes, it is gay. What else is it?

"It's TOTALLY not gay!" Saying that is telling someone that gay is something you don't want to be, like it's a disease you can contract.

So you might be gay, big whoop! If this was a perfect world, we wouldn't even have to care. But because society is so far behind, you have to get treated differently because of who you are.

I can't tell you what you are, you gotta figure it out yourself. Just be who you are, nothing and nobody else matters.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

It is something of the kind. But that doesn't indicate that specific sexuality. And plus, why does it matter to label yourself? It doesn't matter.

[Elysium]

A guy having a crush on a guy is gay attraction. It doesn't necessarily make you gay, though.

[JonasBe]

It might be a sign of it. Don't worry too much, being gay is ok. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You are still young so you'll figure it out eventually. Just enjoy everything for the moment and don't think too much about it.

[Mob Boss]

Please do not bump old threads.

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