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sammyb88
February 5th, 2013, 02:09 AM
does anyone who has a girlfriend still watch porn? I have one and we are both sexually active with each other, but I still have the urge to wank to porn sometimes - just need some advice thanks :)

the thing is I know she still watches it haha but it just doesn't feel right for me to do it hahaha :/

DepartInSecret
February 5th, 2013, 07:51 AM
Well if she is watching it then why shouldn't you... However if you feel Uncomfortable watching it the don't. Do what you want and what makes you feel comfortable.

Straya
February 5th, 2013, 08:43 AM
Well if she's watching it there's no reason why you shouldn't but if its making you uncomfortable maybe you should stop but ultimately it's up to you

AvMan
February 5th, 2013, 02:19 PM
Yeah i do. I heard its perfectly normal for guys to still want pleasure other than that given by a girlfriend.

sammyb88
February 5th, 2013, 11:51 PM
thanks everyone, I think I might stick with the porn haha it's too good to give up ay ay ay ;) plus if she can do it, why can't I??

chrisawesome
February 6th, 2013, 12:00 AM
Well, the thing is....
With a girlfriend, they usually dont want sex when their in bad moods.
When in a good mood, you can seduce them. But that doesnt mean you are horney enough.

I think its normal to watch porn and still have a sexually active relationship. You can log onto a porn sight anytime. But we cant log onto our gf anytime.

If anyone asks why you do this, just say, "I am studying different tequniques." -- It works all the time. Specially when the sex gets better !

digzchickz
February 6th, 2013, 11:52 AM
yeah, i still do sometimes, i mean my gf isnt always available everytime i want to blow a load, there is nothing wrong with it.

AvMan
February 6th, 2013, 12:25 PM
thanks everyone, I think I might stick with the porn haha it's too good to give up ay ay ay ;) plus if she can do it, why can't I??

Exactly..... ;)

brandon1995
February 6th, 2013, 02:00 PM
I think it depends on the individual, but if you're thinking of her while you watch...

NORTH.KN16HT
February 6th, 2013, 04:01 PM
Guilt can be a powerful force in the human mind. Could you keep focas on your gf or would you get lost in the body of another? Would you feel ok getting off on a girl that wasn't your gf? If your excuse to do it is well she does it, then the relationship won't work out in the long run when a girl starts spending money. Just becuase she spends 500 dollars doesn't mean you should spend money just to spend money. If your not comfortable with the fact that she does it than talk to her.

dvd333
February 6th, 2013, 04:56 PM
As long as it doesnt change anything for you two. Focus on each other rather than on porn. Just cut back slowly and talk to her about it

dan96
February 6th, 2013, 05:06 PM
it's just porn, if you feel horny and she's not up for it, then why not, and yeah I agree with others, as long as it doesn't interfere

kingme99
February 6th, 2013, 05:32 PM
Why dont you both watch porn together and watch eachother masturbate....for a bit, until she either jumps on top of you or yyou on top of her. Could be a fun thing to do with eacjother....as a couple.