Attraction

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Ok, so its really weird, but ever since I fully accepted my bisexuality (3 months ago), I seem to be alot more attracted to people, male and female. Its really weird because I never find them attractive beforehand, or did I? I dunno, im confused now ... :D

Anyone else ever felt this way?

[redpandasarecute]

Well first of all...we're all teens! And being teens we are usually attracted to...people xD It's probably just hormones and all that normal stuff. Happens all the time! Have fun :3
and yay for finding who you are <3

[Lost in the Echo]

I think it's a mixture of a couple of things.
You're a teen going through puberty, so your hormones are raging, and that causes you to be horny/attracted to people.
Also, since you've finally accepted your sexuality, that makes you feel more open about it, now that you're being honest with yourself.

So yeah, I think this sudden attraction you've developed towards people, is due to you finally accepting who you are, and the fact you're bi.

[Syvelocin]

Oh yeah, that's exactly how it worked for me. Well, girl-wise.

Looking back on my childhood, the signs were all there. I was always gay, I just didn't know it yet. But I was so locked in the idea that I was straight that it took a really gorgeous girl to blow my closed head wide open. When I accepted it, girl crushes started pouring in. It's kinda strange, isn't it? I guess we just didn't notice it before, because I was unconsciously closed-minded. I don't know about your heterosexual crushes, but I can relate on your homosexual crushes.

[Eth_94123]

You'll find yourself fully in time your only young :)

[Shadow]

Yes it is perfectly normal no need to be alarmed.

[ReginaGeorge]

When I finally realized/accepted my attraction to women, I had the same experience as you. I noticed girls more, a few crushes popped up seemingly out of nowhere.

I think it's just the fact that when you or I or both of us were not accepting or aware of these attractions we either just didn't notice them, we shrugged them off, or we repressed them, but now we're open to these attractions and we notice them and we "embrace" them, for lack of a better word.

It's a good feeling once you get used to it. :)

[dontfiguremeout]

Hmmm, I think it's the mental part. You finally figured out exactly who you were, so now you're more comfortable about yourself that you now don't feel guilty feeling attracted to other people. And since your bi, you have both options open, so you can go after whomever you feel like.