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HeartCoreHannah
February 4th, 2013, 05:29 AM
I over eat. Constantly. I can never eat a normal meal. I have always struggled with it, but lately it has gotten worse. I’ve gained so much weight in the past year, it’s unbelievable. I’ve had issues with purging but don’t talk about it with anymore. But I won't go into that.. Not like anyone would care anyways, because I’m obese.

Anyways, I just got done watching “Thin” and I feel like a piece of shit. The entire time I was watching it, I was wishing I was in their position. It’s so fucked up. I know so many people with an ED and their lives are miserable, they pray for death every single day, and I feel so bad for them… But I can’t help it. I wish I was sick so I could be thin. I don’t have the will power to not eat anymore. I’m even bad at being sick. I hate my face. I hate my body. I hate myself. I’m mad at everyone around me constantly. I blame my mom for my weight because if she would of controlled my eating habits, I wouldn’t be where I am now. Which I know isn’t rational, but that’s just how I feel.

I can’t have any type of relationship with anyone because I can’t get close to anyone. I want someone to love and to have someone love me, but I can’t imagine ever having someone touch me, hold me, kiss me, because I’m so disgusting.. and even when it did happen, I didn’t believe it was love because, come on, who would willingly want to be loving toward me? So like all the others, that relationship didn’t work out… and he still to this day, doesn’t talk to me.

I even find it hard to have friendships because I’m always the ugly fat friend and I always feel like I’m in competition with them. I have online “friends” and that works for me, but the moment they want to hangout, I get so paranoid, I actually make myself sick. I had a theory in my head that a girl I hung out with a while ago, was just hanging out with me to do something horrible to me and to go home and tell all her friends how disgusting I was.

When I was suicidal I was in the process of taking a bunch of tylenol and I remember thinking “All I want is to be skinny.. now I’m going to die and I’m never going to be..” and I stopped taking them. I mean, who does that? Who stops in the middle of attempting suicide just because they want to be skinny? I did start throwing up every meal after that, for about three months. I lost ten pounds, but it obviously wasn’t enough. Once I realized I was never going to lose weight, I did attempt killing myself again. But we all see how that turned out. I even lose at trying to die.

There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t wish I were born someone else. I just keep hoping reincarnation is real so that maybe when I do die, I will come back as somebody beautiful and skinny. That’s all I can ask for at this point. That’s all I want.

Kriss41
February 4th, 2013, 01:23 PM
Aw... That is so sad. :( I am very sorry for you.
The eating disorder you have is called "Binging". Basically it's intaking a lot of food, no matter how much you want to stop.
Find help. A therapist. Someone that you can talk to. Because eating disorders are no fun. I used to have annorexia nervosa, and I lost too much weight. I was 80 pounds at 5'5. I weigh 125 pounds and am 5'6 now. But I was in a lot of trouble for a while. I wish I had gotten help now...
I first recommend finding a doctor or someone to talk to. Some form of trusted adult. Even a good friend. Then go from there.
Please though. Don't kill yourself. It's not the answer.

BlueJaysGirl
February 4th, 2013, 01:53 PM
i am sorry you feel this way
everybody is beautiful in their own way so dont feel pressured to be thin
ive been through it.. im still going through it but i dont let the haters get to me
i like my handles... i would rather that be there then be bone thin
if your concerned about your eating habits maybe consider seeing a dietician or cut back on sugary greasy and fatty foods. keep a calendar and track the amount of calories you eat in a day and this can help alot. when your stressed think of other ways to make you feel better... maybe go for a walk.... watch a movie... hang out with friends.. and also keep in mind too excercise benefits alot... so stick to a specific meal plan and excercise routine and you will be feeling healthy in no time :)
good luck sweetie

lightPainting
February 4th, 2013, 08:19 PM
here this might help you http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1nS5E0HRn0

If you want you can skip to 28:21 or watch the whole thing. [hopfuly this will give you hope]