Love or Lust at first sight?

[Polo2847]

When you first see someone you like, do you feel love? or do you lust/want to mess around with them?

[unnamed94]

i always found that love at first sight thing to be bs. when you first see someone you just see their bodies and cant know anything else about them. you cant claim to be in love with someone just because you are physically attracted. the same applies for when you are just starting to know someone, you can't claim to be truly in love unless you know them really well imo. as you said its probably a feeling to just want to mess around with them.

[Jalinta]

I don't really know, I've never really believed that love at first sight is possible seeing as you don't know anything about the person's personality. But then I know some people who do, so who knows? For me personally it's just lust at first sight, but I do believe that it can develop into love pretty easily. ;)
Then again I guess it depends if it's first sight or meeting, because whilst I don't believe you can love someone the first time you see them, the first time you meet them and actually have a conversation could very well be a different story.. :)

[txtwister13]

i don't believe in love at first sight. love implies an emotional connection that you can't possible have with someone you don't really know. i think lust at first sight is very real....you can deff have a strong physical attraction for someone you don't know.....interesting thing tho - if i'm lusting after a guy that turns out to be a jerk, the physical attraction tends to go away.

[Lost in the Echo]

It depends, sometimes it's just love, sometimes it's just lust, sometimes it's both.
It's natural to feel both of those emotions, from time-to-time.

[CharlieHorse]

Love. Nothing makes me happier than warm love. :)
As for a FIRST TIME, it would be just a tiny bit of lust. But I'm mostly attracted to personality.

[Dooby the potato god]

Love.

I don't particularly enjoy walking around looking girls up and down, it just seems a bit... Creepy.

[Snookers]

I think it's generally valid that most of the people lust for somebody. We live in a world where looks really do matter, so when a boy sees a good looking girl (or vice versa) for the first time, they are attracted to the looks, not personality.
I believe that love at the first sight is pretty rare in today's society. You cannot really love somebody that you know nothing of, but you can lust for somebody due to their looks.