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ItsJustJack
February 3rd, 2013, 05:24 PM
So basically there is this really cute hot and sexy guy who I was and still kind of am still best friends with and I am a self confessed bisexual but he doesn't know. We used to make out every few weeks for about a year and I am very attracted to him. However. I am not sure if he's gay, bi or straight would love for us two to do those kind of things that we used to do again but I can't tell if he wants to and I don't want to jump into things and end up ruining every thing.
What do I do, please guys I need some help solution.
Thanks.
Lost in the Echo
February 3rd, 2013, 07:19 PM
Just tell him how you feel. It seems like he kinda likes you too. And he's probably, at least bi, because he made out with you.
So yeah, just tell him how you feel.
Dooby the potato god
February 3rd, 2013, 07:23 PM
Bo's got the right idea. You just gotta tell him, or you'll never find out!
saturnine
February 4th, 2013, 04:14 PM
I know I'm a girl but telling him and asking him about his sexual orientation is a good idea. Like Bo said, he has to be at least bi if he made out with you, or curious. If you confess that you're bisexual perhaps he'll feel more comfortable and his curiosity will turn into a definite stand in sexuality. Good luck!
Magnus Bane
February 4th, 2013, 04:31 PM
You should do what Bo said he is totally correct. You should tell him how you feel you spark something in him and you might see a whole new side of him.
ItsJustJack
February 4th, 2013, 05:01 PM
Totally with you about ur tastes in boys blonde hair and blue eyes <3 and with sexy body's ;)
ItsJustJack
February 4th, 2013, 05:03 PM
And thanks guys for all you help and Advice I love this place and the people on it !!! =)
teen.jpg
February 4th, 2013, 05:10 PM
What are you waiting for? Go get him!
ItsJustJack
February 12th, 2013, 01:37 PM
What are you waiting for? Go get him!
thanks for the advice, to you and to everyone but the only problem is that if he was just experimenting and has now decided that he didn't like it then i could ruin our friendship that is sooo close. what do i do guys?!?!?!?!?!?!? :what:
Troy35216
February 12th, 2013, 01:51 PM
I am a self confessed bisexual but he doesn't know.
if you are self confessed how come he doesn't know?
We used to make out every few weeks for about a year
if you used to make out every few weeks for a year, how come he doesn't know your bi or that your into him?
I would love for us two to do those kind of things that we used to do again but I can't tell if he wants to
why did you stop doing them? did he say, "i don't wanna do this anymore?" cuz if he did, then that is a clue that he is not gay/bi or at least that he isn't interested in doing that stuff with you anymore. If he said, "we shouldn't do this cuz people might find out" then it sounds like he wants to do it but doesn't want to get caught or get thot of as being gay in which case you should self confess again and see how he feels. the main thing is why did you stop making out every few weeks? let that be the guiding factor of whether it is something you think he would want to start doing again or at least be open to.
Apollo.
February 12th, 2013, 05:26 PM
thanks for the advice, to you and to everyone but the only problem is that if he was just experimenting and has now decided that he didn't like it then i could ruin our friendship that is sooo close. what do i do guys?!?!?!?!?!?!? :what:
Im gay, I see making out/kissing as a big sign you like someone a lot, If it was only sexual acts then it was maybe curiousity. I however would never kiss someone I didnt like more than once, thats not to say this guy isnt different.
I think you should tell him how you feel he can't really be to mad at you if he doesnt feel the same since he gave you some damn strong signs!
dontfiguremeout
February 12th, 2013, 11:48 PM
Honestly, I think if you really want him, you need to get the guts to tell him your sexuality. That's the only way things can happen for this situation. He can either confess too, or he will say he isn't, and then that will stop all this questioning about him and stuff.
volleyball172
February 13th, 2013, 02:13 PM
you should talk to him. you dont have a chance unless you take a risk.
Eth_94123
March 8th, 2013, 08:58 PM
Just tell him how you feel :)
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