ex boyfriend problems

[BlueJaysGirl]

ok so heres the story..
i have been talking to my ex behind my boyfriends back for the past few days
alot of mutual feelings have been brought up.. and im very confused

im starting to feel i have stronger feelings for my ex.... i mean my ex was a SWEET GUY and meant the world to me.. but he made one mistake that ended everything. he cheated on me... and well i got over it but im scared of it happening again if i took him back..

what should i do.... i know you cant love two people... you can only truly love one but idk if its my boyfriend or my ex..

what can i do to try and figure this out..
me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now.. we have sex frequently... im very confused :$

[PinkFloyd]

Well this might be hard to hear, but I don't think your boyfriend should get a second chance. I mean you're in a healthy relationship with a guy now. You have moved on. I think your ex should too. I mean how do you know you can trust him to not make the same mistake again?

[BlueJaysGirl]

ok thankyou
thats what i was afraid someone would say
i can see what you mean.. i mean how can i know to trust him again.. that he wont cheat again.. i wont know.. and have no way of knowing... :(

[robertoccm]

Give him a second chance, if he does it again kick him you know were and never go back with him, unless yo think a second chance is not worth it, and btw you should only give him a second chnce if he accepts his error, begs you for forgiveness and is willing to not repeat his error again

[unnamed94]

don't get back with your ex. don't take him back. even if he says he wont cheat on you again or whatever you cant be sure about it because he already did it once, plus you have a boyfriend now. that's something i wouldn't forgive my gf.

regarding your boyfriend, its time to think about your relationship. maybe talking with your ex brought back some old feelings even if you still love your boyfriend or maybe the relationship isn't the way it was. you should discuss this with him.

[BlueJaysGirl]

ok thanks guys :)

[Tiffy]

i say you stay with the guy you are with. unless you wanna drop him for a diffrent reason. The ex is a ex for a reason. listen to you mind, not your feelings, they can send you the wrong way. if something happenes with the bf. and you still feel something, then try it