SEX or not really SEX yet?

[jlchill]

i had a sleepover thingy with my best friend.. we watched Spartacus.. we just laughed to the first intimate scene, but at the scene go longer.. we stop laughing and started to jack off.. he touched my penis and i touched him too as i went into it.. then we kissed, hug and kissed. and touch. is it sex already????

is it gay sex??

[Human Male]

No. Not technically sex (that's only if he sticks it in your ass), but yeah, it's pretty gay.

It's not 'curiosity', by the way. If you felt attraction to a male, that's a homosexual act. 'Curiosity' is what happens when you're seven and don't know what a penis does.


edit: also, I'd like to be the first to officially call 'bullshit' on this story

[lukene]

Small minded people ^
It isn't sex and I think it is only gay if you want it to be:)

[NeuroTiger]

No definitely it's not sex but surely a gay action or perhaps bi-curious

[sdude]

Entirely up to you guys...do you feel emotionally connected with him now? Are you wanting to do this again, is he?? Homosexuality is more than the "physical" act...it is definately in teh gay corner what u did, but it's how u really feel about him, nad if u do? Thats ok man, hope it works out for u..

[knight96]

It's not gay! Curious I would say. You have to feel emotionally attracted to a guy to be gay. Physically it's not "enough".

[Troy35216]

when i see posts like this the first thing i do is look at the other posts from the same poster.
here is Ichill's timetable.
Today at 4:15 he tells another guy wondering if he should mess around at a sleepover that it will be great.
Today at 4:19 he says he had a sleepover and messed around and he wants to know if it's real sex. made it sound like it was the first time and out of the blue.
Today at 4:33 he tells someone that messing around with guys is common and normal and he does it too.
My question is what happened between 4:15 and 4:33 that suddenly had him freaking out and that made him forget all about the other time he did this before?

and on Dec 22 AND Dec 23, two days in a row, he posted this: my best friend and i re like brothers. he kissed me. it happened when we were walking from school. the rain suddenly came so we ran till we arrived in a old bus stop behind the bushes. i gave him my gym towel to let him dry himself. he stood up and kissed me on my lips so tight. i saw his face shocked of what he did. and he creid. CRIED. and said so sorry. but he ran away. i was shocked too. these past days, i always caught him staring at me at school. up until now. but everytime i try to talk to him, he always run away. i dont know if he's ashamed of what he did. or he just dont want me to be his best friend anymore. it breaks my heart.. is this gay?

so yeah, I call bullshit, too.

[smelliot44]

No i guess your just experimenting. I wouldnt say gay.

[BakeBake]

No, that is just "having fun" as long as you guys are not willing to go into a relationship... It is fine to do that, and it is not even gay if you guys have sex. So don't worry about that. As long as you guys are having fun and are both willing to keep it on the DL, then it doesn't matter. Just have fun. And sex is where, you will have your wang in him... or the other way around.

[klhohman16]

its not sex, sex is either oral anal or vaginal, and no i do not think it is gay unless you consider it gay, i think it is an act of curiosity. you are probably just experimenting.

[zerosix22]

Not sex. For me its the act of experimenting. :)

[staples]

no its not sex

[PinkFloyd]

You did not have sex. Sex is penitration. It sounds like you were just experimenting because of hormones raging.

[alexkun]

no. obviously not.. but it will surely lead to that one day.. i can tell you.. i've been there :P..

[alexkun]

You did not have sex. Sex is penitration. If you were an adult, that would be considered gay. You are not an adult thought, so it's just your hormones.

please.. you dont need to be an adult to be gay... thats for sure.. a gay person is not defined by an age limit. early teens are usually confused and not really sure about being gay, but that cannot be generalized, i know people way younger than me, and so sure about their sexuality..

[PinkFloyd]

please.. you dont need to be an adult to be gay... thats for sure.. a gay person is not defined by an age limit. early teens are usually confused and not really sure about being gay, but that cannot be generalized, i know people way younger than me, and so sure about their sexuality..

I mis-worded it somehow. My bad. My point was that it was experimenting and not gay. I'm well aware that Teens and even kids can be gay. Don't worry.

[MatthewC]

its not sex but you might be curious or gay this point in life its difficult to tell

[CookieMonster1997]

nah its not. the 2 of ye were just trying things out. its perfectly normal !!

[Catholic Guy]

No matter what anyone tells you it's not gay unless you have feelings for him, it's just experimenting, no it's not sex until you enter him or he enters you in the anus

[dufus]

I say its just having some fun...not gay. I play around like that with friends on sleepovers all the time. Its natural at our age.

[Jae Ostraes]

when i see posts like this the first thing i do is look at the other posts from the same poster.
here is Ichill's timetable.
Today at 4:15 he tells another guy wondering if he should mess around at a sleepover that it will be great.
Today at 4:19 he says he had a sleepover and messed around and he wants to know if it's real sex. made it sound like it was the first time and out of the blue.
Today at 4:33 he tells someone that messing around with guys is common and normal and he does it too.
My question is what happened between 4:15 and 4:33 that suddenly had him freaking out and that made him forget all about the other time he did this before?

and on Dec 22 AND Dec 23, two days in a row, he posted this: my best friend and i re like brothers. he kissed me. it happened when we were walking from school. the rain suddenly came so we ran till we arrived in a old bus stop behind the bushes. i gave him my gym towel to let him dry himself. he stood up and kissed me on my lips so tight. i saw his face shocked of what he did. and he creid. CRIED. and said so sorry. but he ran away. i was shocked too. these past days, i always caught him staring at me at school. up until now. but everytime i try to talk to him, he always run away. i dont know if he's ashamed of what he did. or he just dont want me to be his best friend anymore. it breaks my heart.. is this gay?

so yeah, I call bullshit, too.


Yeah, A Bullshit too,. With an A.

[brodyk15]

Depends what you may call sex. I say that you guys were just playing.