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Zwxg
February 3rd, 2013, 04:38 AM
So I'm 15 and my friend is 13. We were talking and we came to the topic of puberty and "babies". He was complaining on how his parent would tell him that babies are made when a man and women etc. and he said he wanted a more definite answer. Of course, I asked him what did he do find out more about it, ask his parent or like google it lol. He answered google and reacted in a more weirded and disgusted way. So my question is since he seems to not know much about puberty, sex, masturbation and all that should I kind of show him? If so how should I approach the topic and like what do I do?

Human Male
February 3rd, 2013, 05:02 AM
If you do anything, make it like bullet points. I.E. bam bam bam bam bam done.

Don't dwell on any points, don't patronize, and for the love of god, I don't know what 'show him' means, but don't do that.

Zwxg
February 3rd, 2013, 05:11 AM
Show him like porn or something is what I meant

jlchill
February 3rd, 2013, 05:28 AM
show him a porn!!! hahahaha!! just kiddin.. just talk to him is enough.. show him how to masturbate.. and all about puberty... but dont teach him sex.. that's too early for him to know..

Human Male
February 3rd, 2013, 05:34 AM
Ok nonononono.

Don't show him porn. Tell him about all of that related stuff, masturbation/sex/etc (why the fuck would 13 be too young to know about sex?) but 'showing him' is crossing a bit of a barrier.

Again.

Bullet points. Boundaries. Make sure he knows that you're open to questions, but concise is key.

BakeBake
February 3rd, 2013, 05:11 PM
Like the first guy said, keep it straight forward and simple. I mean you can go into detail if he wants to, but try not to show him anything, like you jacking off and stuff, unless he asks.

Jae Ostraes
April 16th, 2013, 09:38 AM
Ok nonononono.

Don't show him porn. Tell him about all of that related stuff, masturbation/sex/etc (why the fuck would 13 be too young to know about sex?) but 'showing him' is crossing a bit of a barrier.

Again.

Bullet points. Boundaries. Make sure he knows that you're open to questions, but concise is key.

Im Singing While Reading Your Last Paragraph Xd " Bullet Proof :)) " HAHAHA

For me,- Let Him Discover By Himself ? Thats How I Discovered it. :)

johnsmith1
April 16th, 2013, 10:06 AM
Bullet points seems a good way to do it. Be brief and prepare to expand where necessary

justin 13
April 16th, 2013, 12:06 PM
Dude, I don't get it. What was his question? Answer the question if any, but not showing yourself and please NO PORN.

Second Chance
April 16th, 2013, 01:04 PM
Since your friend is already using Google to find things out and since he already knows what sexuality is, then I see no problem for you to tell him what sex is and how it works. Just be careful because you're older than him, and you don't want to do anything beyond telling him what sexuality is. What I mean is you shouldn't jack off with him or something like that, but it is totally all right to go through what sex and puberty is like the bullet point idea you have. It is better for your friend to learn about sexuality and puberty from someone responsible than some creeper or crazy website online.

Meh Guy
April 16th, 2013, 06:33 PM
Ask if he wants to experiment...that's what I would do in your situation

fast8
April 16th, 2013, 07:38 PM
you can talk to him about it an help him out any way you can aslong he wants to know but rember he is to young for sex yet

Evancosta
April 16th, 2013, 10:28 PM
It's not up to you to do that. Let him find out in his own way. Leave it be.

Fanta_Lover44
April 17th, 2013, 12:57 PM
Hmmm don't show him but perhaps if you really want to then i would advise you to give him an education... It's really up to weather you feel comfortable enough.

xmojox
April 17th, 2013, 01:11 PM
So I'm 15 and my friend is 13. We were talking and we came to the topic of puberty and "babies". He was complaining on how his parent would tell him that babies are made when a man and women etc. and he said he wanted a more definite answer. Of course, I asked him what did he do find out more about it, ask his parent or like google it lol. He answered google and reacted in a more weirded and disgusted way. So my question is since he seems to not know much about puberty, sex, masturbation and all that should I kind of show him? If so how should I approach the topic and like what do I do?

What's he wanting to know exactly? It's hard to answer without knowing that.

Sph2015
April 17th, 2013, 05:03 PM
If you do anything, make it like bullet points. I.E. bam bam bam bam bam done.

Don't dwell on any points, don't patronize, and for the love of god, I don't know what 'show him' means, but don't do that.

This. Right here.

tommy100
May 22nd, 2013, 12:29 AM
I had a friend who was the same and i told him stuff and how to do it and now he loves it