What are you attracted to and why?

[Dimentio]

Answer is in the title :) What are you attracted to and why?
I feel kinda odd and weird but i grew up in an abusive past, And i do not fight for myself and i am weak, But i don't know what it is but there's something about a tall man who is strong with a powerful voice who looks mad, It just makes my non existent ovaries explode! I used to be scared of that as that is what i was abused of but now if you give me that, I just wanna melt! XD And honest to god i am deffinitly gay, Even the words for a lady part makes me feel queasy, But in the song "Cell Block Tango" The lady/what the lady is singing about Cicero, Her mix of sexy, Anger, Powerful, Dominating, Her voice being the same put guy parts on that i am sold! But then i also LOVE gentle, Sweet romantic guys, I am a quite passionate and romantic guy myself, Even not being in love i can tell that, But those guys are just so adorable and it is what i want and they want it to so it's perfect! :3
Oh you guys gave me ideas! XD I LOVE snuggles and cuddles more then anything so my guy would have to be okay with that, He'd need to know the reasons i can't do somethings is my hair unless i can have a hat on or something, And he'd need to like Glee! Glee is my life so if he hated it! Wow I'd augh, He would need to like my best friend Kelsey as we're so close and i could not have them hating each other, I prefer skinny guys with no body hair, Hate body hair, And they need to not care if they show their emotions and be okay with someone who is more emotional than a clown on his period! Yeah some more ideas from you guys so thank you! :D

[Smeagol]

A girl with musical talent. Being a scaredy cat is a huge turnoff for me. If she is afraid of getting dirty or climbing trees or jumping off cliffs into icy water: then no. I like somebody brave and adventurous. Somebody like me who laughs through horror movies and doesn't mind if I randomly start crying during a long, stressful day. Somebody who won't judge the scars on my arms. I like people who cuddle xD I'd like a girl who's more feminine than me though, somebody I can look out for. Also, somebody who likes baking.

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, I don't know. I'm not really attracted to just one type of girl.
But, I guess I like girls with a sense of humor, and are smart, and I guess i'm attracted to girls with blonde or brunette hair.

[Anonimi]

i just get a crush on someone, not a particular type (i think)

[workingatperfect]

Hmm I don't know. My type is more specific to what I don't like. I don't like really skinny guys, or guys that are too sensitive. But of course, I don't want them to be a jerk or emotionless, just, not a baby haha. Um, I don't like long hair on a guy. I guess I just like manly men. Oh, and not too much muscle. No 6 packs. And I like a little chest hair and stuff. And of course, they have to have good taste in movies haha. Music too, but movies are more important. I couldn't date a guy who doesn't like Pulp Fiction. :P That's my deal breaker lol.

[robertoccm]

my type are girls (obviusly) any particular type of sweet funny girls

[redpandasarecute]

I love guys who're kinda feminine looking, a boyish look :3 so cute! The ones that are sweet, funny, caring, never afraid to stand up for themselves or other people. Ah, maybe one day c:

[nice]

Lets see in guys i like someone who is sweet and careing. They have to like to cuddle and snuggle to and be romantic i find that so cute. Um they have to have a sense of humor and at least get along with my best friends to some degree. They CAN NOT be a big ass musclar dude i like them thin. And they have to be flirty too its fun to have someone to be a flirty with :yes:

For girls they have to be shorter than me or my height its just weird to stand on your toes to kiss a girl. If they are somewhat dumb or easy to confuse its so cute to mess with them a little or if they are smarter than me thats ok too. Have to be ok with the way i am with some of my friends (cuddling, sleeping on each other, etc.) its cute sometimes if they are a little bitchy but not to the point that its rude. Its also nice if they play sports too.

Oh and if they get jealous sometimes its cute for guys and girls but they cant always be jealous of every little thing

[Syvelocin]

I can kind of relate to you OP in that I have this huge mother complex that I think relates to abuse. I'm never attracted to people my own age; they're always a couple years older than me at the least. I immediately cling to any female who's willing to nurture me, as sad as it sounds.

Artsy is an obvious one. Even my past boyfriends have always been into acting or music. It's a bit hard when your spirit is so creatively-inclined to be involved with someone who isn't. Then they're always above average on the smarts, but not exactly brainy as just natural intelligence.

I'm really into women who are very vivid and bold. Confidence, great spirit, determination. But easy-going is a must.

As far as looks, the ones that strike me first are usually rare, pale-skinned beauties. And not your contemporary sense of beauty. When I'm really into someone, they're always a little different than even your typical pretty girl. Some of them aren't even considered attractive by some, which is extremely shocking to me. I gravitate toward darker hair but I have liked girls with blonde hair before. My girlfriend is blonde.

Oh. And taller than me. Always taller. Most girls are taller than me though.

[dontfiguremeout]

Hmmm, well I already found a girl whom I really love. She's beautiful both in and outside. She loves little kids, and can dance! *I'm a dancer*

[unnamed94]

being kinda shy to people i just meet (i open myself with people i feel good around) , i like girls who are the compelte opposite. i also find it attractive if they are funny and smart. physically theres nothing that i find specially attractive. the only thing i dont find attractive at all is when girls are so obsessed about their bodies.

[Polo2847]

Someone who can make me laugh and smile, true to me. It would be fun if she was interested in photography, and some adventurous stuff like rollercoasters. I want to be able to go on a photo trip with someone and have a good time with them. I think a girl that's a bit shy would be nice too. I'm kind of timid when meeting new people.

[Dimentio]

Lets see in guys i like someone who is sweet and careing. They have to like to cuddle and snuggle to and be romantic i find that so cute. Um they have to have a sense of humor and at least get along with my best friends to some degree. They CAN NOT be a big ass musclar dude i like them thin. And they have to be flirty too its fun to have someone to be a flirty with :yes:

XD That is so much like me! I am caring and romantic and love cuddles and snuggles and my sense of humor spreads across everything even the darker stuff ha ha, And i am probably a huge flirt once i get comfy around people! And it is kind of the person i am looking for and i agree, Getting along with the best friend is a MUST!
And congrats Jordan it sounds cute you being in a relationship :) Hope you both last! And to the rest of you all, You are all sounding so cute and adorable and so sweet and nice and want those kind of people so i hope you get them! :D

[Dooby the potato god]

Somebody caring, kind, intelligent, quite shy, pretty and (optional, but a good point) a gamer. c:

[Stryker125]

I don't think I'm experienced enough to say that I have a "type", but I like someone who I can easily get along with. It's even better if we're best friends! I like to laugh, so being able to make me laugh and smile is always plus. It's also great if they have a great sense of humor, because I'm a little weird at times haha. I'm pretty shy for a while until I'm comfortable around people, so it would help if they were outgoing, but even if they're just as shy as I am, it doesn't really matter as long as they're fun and pleasant to be around. I think whoever I end up dating would also probably be a creative type too. It's also great if we like the same shows, music, etc but that's not a deal breaker...maybe we can introduce each other to new things! Also I really like hugs and stuff. Cuddles are a necessity.

As far as looks go, I'm not gonna lie and say they don't matter at all, but they are definitely way less important than character and personality. It doesn't matter how pretty you are, if you're an asshole, you're ugly. That said though I'm usually attracted to people who are in shape, and healthy, nice eyes, smile, all that good stuff haha.

^^^Same for girls and guys btw

[nice]

XD That is so much like me! I am caring and romantic and love cuddles and snuggles and my sense of humor spreads across everything even the darker stuff ha ha, And i am probably a huge flirt once i get comfy around people! And it is kind of the person i am looking for and i agree, Getting along with the best friend is a MUST!
And congrats Jordan it sounds cute you being in a relationship :) Hope you both last! And to the rest of you all, You are all sounding so cute and adorable and so sweet and nice and want those kind of people so i hope you get them! :D

Lol I think the only real difference between me and you is that I don't like glee :P. but you seem like a cool guy we should talk more.

[Dimentio]

Lol I think the only real difference between me and you is that I don't like glee :P. but you seem like a cool guy we should talk more.

Wh-Wha-What....WHAT!?! Can that even be used in a sentence? :'( One does not simply not like Glee! It is like not liking baths or tea and biscuits! Ain't nobody got time for that! I might have to change your mind on it ;) And if you wanna! :D

[CharlieHorse]

people who aren't afraid to stick out and be who they are.
and obviously im attracted to people im attracted to :conspiracy: