not gay but think gay thoughts once in awhile

[lasvegas]

. I see myself with a woman in the future
.i watch straight prn but once in awhile a watch gay
. i like a couple of girls in my school
. i check out and think about some guys naked at times
. i dont wanna be gay
.etc



13 years old male i need some advice

[ReginaGeorge]

First off, you need to eliminate the "I don't want to be gay" mindset because it's not going to help at all. It'll lean you one way or the other or sway your thinking. So, at least for this thread, let go off that mindset.

Secondly, being gay is the complete or primary attraction to other men, emotionally and physically. So, you have feelings for girls, so you're pretty much disqualified from being a stone-hard gay.

Porn is not a fool-proof indicator of sexuality, but it does sway you one way or the other. Assuming you find the girl sexually attractive in the porn, and you 'get off' to her pleasure and body, this combine with your emotions for girls at school means you are not gay.

You are 13 years old, and just getting into puberty so your hormones are going hay-wire, making you horny, and aware of sex and bodies and things like that. It's totally normal to be curious or slightly attracted to the same-sex during puberty. It probably affects about 50% or more of teenagers. Once puberty starts finishing up, and your hormones settle into place, most of the time, the attraction to the same-sex fades, sometimes it doesn't.

But if it doesn't, that doesn't always indicate homosexuality either. For example, there are lots of girls who love lesbian porn, but in reality, they wouldn't want to have sex with a girl. Another example, some girls like making out with other girls, per heaps a little touching, but no "real" sex. Both of these examples are still primarily straight.

Just go on the Boys Puberty forum and you'll see just how common your feelings are. You are totally normal, and there's nothing wrong.

P.s. it would be totally okay if you were gay. :)

[Lost in the Echo]

You're going through puberty, and your hormones are raging. That's all this is.
Don't worry, it's a normal thing. :)

[Dimentio]

It's hard to say as your 13, I would right of the bat say you are straight it is just your hormones and all the usual stuff, But i have made a friend who had gay thoughts and he REFUSED to be gay and he hated gays! But it took about a year but i taught him being gay is fine and be proud of whoever you are now he is bisexual :) So just remove the thought of i don't want to be gay as there is NOTHING wrong with it, And let life take you where it planned on to good luck!

[Lyra Heartstrings]

You're going through puberty, honestly. I think we all know what it's like. Your hormones are raging and you would fuck a lamp post if you could. Don't sweat it. It'll pass. ;)

[BlueJaysGirl]

dont jump to conclusions and automatically assume your gay dear
your still going through puberty as many others have already said. its hard
sexuality is hard to figure out growing up.
you may be bi-sexual but there is no ways of actually knowing until you yourseld actually try and figure it out :)

[PinkFloyd]

. I see myself with a woman in the future
.i watch straight prn but once in awhile a watch gay Plenty of straight people watch gay porn.
. i like a couple of girls in my school
. i check out and think about some guys naked at times It's your hormones.
. i dont wanna be gay