Should I do it?

[robertoccm]

So today I gave her a poem and a valentine's gram, and by her reaction I thought that meant she liked me, but we kept talking and she didn't mention me as her valentine at all, so afterschool with the doubt if I was her valentine I couldn't wait to ask her tomorrow, so I ask her through facebook, and she answers someone already asked her :'( :'( so I feel pretty bad right now, at least I hope we still remain friends.

[Leon03]

Sounds like a wonderful idea. But you should do whatever feels right and honest to you. If you can't find words to tell her directly so write them down. And Valentine’s is a great opportunity for your idea.
I don’t see a reason why she would not talk to you anymore after a cute and nice poem on a Valentine’s card. She might not fall in in love with you for it. But how would you find out without making the first step.
Even if she has not the same feelings for you why wouldn’t she still be friends with you?
Did you write poems to the other girls too who quit talking to you at the end? What makes you so afraid?
And a girl should love you for what you are not for what you look ;).
Go for it. Good luck!

[ReginaGeorge]

Already 14!? You're practically on your death bed! Relax, kiddo. There's no race.

I think you should go for it. Soppy romantic things always get remembered. The more effort you put into it the better. The thought really does count, and if the thought is good, then it's fool proof. I'm sure she will appreciate it a lot, especially if you personalize it to suit her, and include her in it. It will make it more real, and less "you copied this from Internet". Good luck.

[robertoccm]

Already 14!? You're practically on your death bed! Relax, kiddo. There's no race.

I think you should go for it. Soppy romantic things always get remembered. The more effort you put into it the better. The thought really does count, and if the thought is good, then it's fool proof. I'm sure she will appreciate it a lot, especially if you personalize it to suit her, and include her in it. It will make it more real, and less "you copied this from Internet". Good luck.

Ok I know I'm young is just that I want to be with many girls as possible (not as a player) to meet the right one soon, but I know she'll come. Of cocurse i will write it out myself, I'm not to copy it from the Internet. Thankyou for your support :D

Sounds like a wonderful idea. But you should do whatever feels right and honest to you. If you can't find words to tell her directly so write them down. And Valentine’s is a great opportunity for your idea.
I don’t see a reason why she would not talk to you anymore after a cute and nice poem on a Valentine’s card. She might not fall in in love with you for it. But how would you find out without making the first step.
Even if she has not the same feelings for you why wouldn’t she still be friends with you?
Did you write poems to the other girls too who quit talking to you at the end? What makes you so afraid?
And a girl should love you for what you are not for what you look ;).
Go for it. Good luck!

I guess I'm afraid of rejection itself, but you both motivate me, thankyou for your support, I'll try it, and maybe i'll start giving her little things before, like chocolates and stuff (not heart-shaped, just normal chocolates)
I hope it works, we'll see :rolleyes:

[AbbaZabba]

There's nothing wrong with a poem, but I would also write just what you said. Tell her how you felt when you met, that you really hate you don't get to talk anymore and you really want to, that you really LIKE her and I'd ask her, if you could call her. If she gives you a hug, then she cares. If you do a poem, don't make it too mushy, you are trying to start a friendship right now, it isn't a love yet. Good luck.

[JustAGuy]

Go for it!(:

[robertoccm]

Thankyou for your advise everyone, what do you think about the poem, i don't know if it is to mush it, tell me if it is okay:

Lonely my heart was before that special day;
Opaque was my view of life before saw I your face;
Vain were my efforts to ignore what my feelings convey;
Emerged from a dream, now your heart shall I chase.

Lovely is the voice spoken by those lips of yours;
Opaque looks the sun when compared to your bright face;
Vivid and splendid is that visage of yours that my sight explores;
Emerged from a fantasy, my eyes your heart shall gaze.

[SammieRose]

Do what your heart wants to do. If she rejects you, she was not meant to be near you.

Like my mom always says to us, you already have a NO, go for the YES. I guess i could rephrase it something like, you already do have the "no, i will not be your valentine", go for the "yes, i will be delighted to be your valentine." :cool:

The worst that can happen is that you do not get to be her valentine/bf or she could send you to the friend zone. Right now you have neither.;)

[robertoccm]

Thankyou sammie, new question, what do you think of the poem?

[AvMan]

Great idea! Go for it!

[Dooby the potato god]

Go for it, and good luck! c:

[robertoccm]

I may even put it inside a hand-made st valentine's card, i think she'll apreciate that

[SammieRose]

I may even put it inside a hand-made st valentine's card, i think she'll apreciate that

Nice poem, and yes, she will love that you went all the way to make her a valentine card yourself. :groupwave:

[robertoccm]

Nice poem, and yes, she will love that you went all the way to make her a valentine card yourself. :groupwave:

Thanks, then I'll go for it, like you've said, i got nothing to lose

[robertoccm]

Tomorriw's the day, i bought her a st valentines gram from the school without any message in it, vecause later on the day I'll give her the poem, which will be the message ;)
Hope she says yes, btw, I edited the poem, now it goes:

Lonely my heart was before that special day;
Opaque was my view of life before saw I your face;
Vain were my efforts to ignore what my feelings convey;
Emerged from a dream, now your heart shall I chase.

Lovely is the voice spoken by those lips of yours;
Obscure looks the sun when compared to your bright visage;
Vivid and splendid is youur frown that my that with joy my sight explores;
Emerged from a fantasy, being with you is a privilege.

[robertoccm]

Ok so Today in the very morning at school I said Hi to her and she gave me the diary hug, then she started to walk away (she ws w/ her friend), so I stopped her and told her 'I have something for you' and she answered 'really! what?' and I said 'a poem. I got it out of my pocket and gave it to her and she said 'Oh thankyou!' and said to her friend 'yeah, I got a poem, yes...' in sarcastic mood, So I just walked away. Later on the day valentine's grams were delivered which I sended one for her, and in the halways saw her once, but apparently she didnt noticed me (I thought she was ignoring me), then another eight-grader girl, another friend of mine saw my very sad face and maybe teary eyes and told me 'You got a heatbreak' and of course i said yes, and she whispered 'by GG?' I answered 'yes'. Later after lunch in the gym I saw GG and because I thought she was ignoring me I was hiding from her. She turned around, saw me, runned to hug me (like always) and screamed my name really happy, then she just walked away but I stopped her and told her 'did you like what I gave you?' and she said 'Yes thenkyou!' and walked away, so this left me happy but reaaaaally confused, what does she mean by all this actions ??????
BTW she had lots of other gifts that weren't from me
Quick update: she's talking to me on fb, she told me what i gave to her was cute, and i told her 'what else do you think about it besides cute' and she said awesome, sweet, etc. but never that she likes me or something S:

[robertoccm]

So today I gave her a poem and a valentine's gram, and by her reaction I thought that meant she liked me, but we kept talking and she didn't mention me as her valentine at all, so afterschool with the doubt if I was her valentine I couldn't wait to ask her tomorrow, so I ask her through facebook, and she answers someone already asked her :'( :'( so I feel pretty bad right now, at least I hope we still remain friends.