Approaching her

[Jman437]

So there's a girl in my class who is really cute, and she looks a lot at me, I caught her several times doing it. I really like her, I get excited and happy just by seeing her face , she's just so... perfect! I'm kinda shy, just a bit introverted and I'm afraid I'm going to ruin my chances with her... Any suggestions on how to approach her?

[Cook my Sock]

Im in the same situation with a girl i like but i look at her alot (but not in a stalking way) and shes caught me a few times and when she catches me she always smiles and then we just kind of stare at eachother till one of us just looks away.The only thing is i get really shy and nervous when talking to her so its akward because i cant start a convo with her. Sorry wasnt what you was looking for

[PinkFloyd]

Be subtle and be yourself. The subtlelity is importand because most girls like those little hints. Being yourself is the most important though. If you try to be the muscular guy or something, she'll think you're a joke. If you're your self, then when she gets to know you better she wont get any surprises. ;)

-Rob

[dontfiguremeout]

Just start giving her small talk. I now have a really good friend of mine now, and we first started with the smallest of small talks. You never know where it could lead you! Plus she might even like you too just because she keeps staring at you! So just go up and say hey and see what happens.

[AbbaZabba]

From a girl's point of view, first I think shyness is adorable. I'm not a macho man person. So if I caught you looking, but not talking, I'd find it cute and would kindle an attraction. Then too, she might be shy. Don't wait to long, someone might beat you to the punch. Just start a simple conversation, you'll know if she's interested. Most of all be yourself, look at her as a friend, not a girl friend. Don't be afraid of rejection, it's part of life and will only make you stronger. Odds are, she wants you to speak to her.

[Jman437]

Just start giving her small talk. I now have a really good friend of mine now, and we first started with the smallest of small talks. You never know where it could lead you! Plus she might even like you too just because she keeps staring at you! So just go up and say hey and see what happens.

I dunno man, I think I just need a perfect moment to strike you know, I'm not that's good on breaking the ice...

[Jman437]

From a girl's point of view, first I think shyness is adorable. I'm not a macho man person. So if I caught you looking, but not talking, I'd find it cute and would kindle an attraction. Then too, she might be shy. Don't wait to long, someone might beat you to the punch. Just start a simple conversation, you'll know if she's interested. Most of all be yourself, look at her as a friend, not a girl friend. Don't be afraid of rejection, it's part of life and will only make you stronger. Odds are, she wants you to speak to her.

I hope she's like you too. In my school girls just want "numero unos", maybe she'll be different, I really hope...

[AbbaZabba]

I hope she is different for you, never know till you try. And if she does says no, please don't let it bother you. We all hate rejection, but don't let it get to you. There are plenty of fish in the ocean and it's all part of life. Look at it as her loss, not yours. I wish you the best, I really do. Think positive.

[Jman437]

I hope she is different for you, never know till you try. And if she does says no, please don't let it bother you. We all hate rejection, but don't let it get to you. There are plenty of fish in the ocean and it's all part of life. Look at it as her loss, not yours. I wish you the best, I really do. Think positive.

I've been rejected once in my life, and it was enough, because I really liked the girl. I got rejected so badly that every day after that (until I got over it), I got all sad and depressed just by thinking of it, because I really liked her, and see her walk away like that it's just... God, it was awful as hell! And she really seemed to like me. But I believe this one will be different, I don't know why, maybe because of the signs I'm being given. I will try again, my hope is alive and my thoughts are as positive as a proton(sorry for the cheesy metaphor xb)

[AbbaZabba]

I've been rejected once in my life, and it was enough, because I really liked the girl. I got rejected so badly that every day after that (until I got over it), I got all sad and depressed just by thinking of it, because I really liked her, and see her walk away like that it's just... God, it was awful as hell! And she really seemed to like me. But I believe this one will be different, I don't know why, maybe because of the signs I'm being given. I will try again, my hope is alive and my thoughts are as positive as a proton(sorry for the cheesy metaphor xb)
I've been lucky, the boy I'm in love with now, has been my best friend since 6 and it took 8 years to turn into a relationship. Just remember, good things don't happen over night. I just hope you learn not to let things get to you, and I know it's not easy, and there is no real answer how to. Coming from a person who can tune out anything she wants, feeling horrible inside is not worth it. Just remember, you're getting down over someone you really don't know yet. The only comfort I can give you, I truly hope it works for you and there's one person pulling for you.

“Chase your dreams until you catch them...and then dream, catch, and dream again! ”

[Jman437]

I've been lucky, the boy I'm in love with now, has been my best friend since 6 and it took 8 years to turn into a relationship. Just remember, good things don't happen over night. I just hope you learn not to let things get to you, and I know it's not easy, and there is no real answer how to. Coming from a person who can tune out anything she wants, feeling horrible inside is not worth it. Just remember, you're getting down over someone you really don't know yet. The only comfort I can give you, I truly hope it works for you and there's one person pulling for you.

“Chase your dreams until you catch them...and then dream, catch, and dream again! ”

Thanks for all the support, Abba. Glad someone other than my "friends" helped me overcome my insecurities about relationships. Now my hope is on the rise again :D