Well Am I?

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I know this question is always asked but I really dont know....

Right well I am not attracted to men, but I have had oral with my friend before a few times, I dont enjoy it really, but why did I do it a few times then?

Also I have 'compared' sizes with my friends before and I seem to generally just act gay, like I know if a guy is good looking or not- whereas my friends always say they cant tell because they are straight. Also sometimes me and my friends act out gay scenes for a laugh, not actually do anything just pretend to.

am I gay? Sorry if this is a silly question.

[Serenity]

It's not a silly question at all, don't worry.

Curiosity and experimentation are completely and totally normal, though I don't advise you act on your curiosity and urges b/c it might lead to awkward relationships with friends. Plus you've already learned that you don't enjoy it, so there's that.

To be gay, you must feel an emotional and physical attraction to members of the same gender, which you don't. Being able to tell whether people of the same gender are good looking or not doesn't make you gay, it means you're not blind :P

I also don't advise acting gay or mocking gay people, as a lot of people can find that offensive- you never know if there's an in-the-closet gay person nearby who can hear you and be hurt by your words and actions. Remember there's a difference between intent and impact :daisy: