what do i do!!!!

[christopher3000]

I no this girl likes me but she is dating another guy and I really like her.she grabbed my hand and put her head on me on the buss and I just sat there.she tried to come to my house;)and now when she walks by me in the hall I just try not to look at her and we don't talk much any more-did I blow it.do you think we could start over way and if yes what do I do/and if you have not fingered out yet I'm shy-well really shy

[dontfiguremeout]

I think the best thing before you guys start dating is to talk about it one on one. If she indeed likes you and you like her then you guys should start dating. But there's something in the way. Her boyfriend. If she really likes you instead, you need to tell her she needs to break up with him, because if you guys started dating it would be called cheating, and I don't think you would want to mess with the dude anyways.

[anyone50]

I agree you need to find out where you stand with this girl and the best way is to start a dialog with her. Being shy makes this harder for you but if you really want this girl you have to be willing to put yourself out there. As far as the other guy is concerned if she is still dating him then thats another issue that need to be settled. Often girls will date a guy but it dosen't mean she has become exclusive.