A question for Girls.

[TheMeme]

Alright, so here it goes.
Me and my group of guy friends look at ass. What straight male wouldn't? They saw one of my friends looking at their ass and two of the girls came over and told us to stop (except for the other one, who really didn't care). But yet they do REALLY obviously things that show us they want us to, like bending over in front of our lunch table at school, pullin up their shirts when wearing yoga pants, stuff like that. So the question is, if you know guys look, would you show off or not? Would you even care? Do you like the attention that guys give you? Cause they send mixed messages with what thy do in front of us.

[ReginaGeorge]

Unless a girl tells you they like it, then you cannot assume they do, no matter how slutty you think they are. When bending over in front of your table, did it occur to you they need to pick something up? When wearing yoga pants and pulling up shirts, did you consider heat? Or comfort? Or fashion? Or feeling good? Or even showing off to other girls? For sexual or non-sexual reasons? Yoga pants weren't invented for viewing pleasure, they were made for comfort and free movement during physical activity.

Contrary to popular belief amongst males, females do not live to please men, they have their own agenda's. Shocking, I know.

The answers you get on here might be different from the girls you look at opinion's. Females don't have a universal opinion. I personally would not show off, and excessive attention, like staring, would make me comfortable.

[Bath]

That's victim-blaming, the same logic that rapists use. "Well, she was askin' for it, look what she's wearing!!!" I know looking at a girl's body may seem harmless, but you should NOT assume that she likes it. A girl should be able to wear whatever she wants. That doesn't mean she wants men looking at her, cat-calling her, touching her, anything. A girl does not always dress for attention from guys.

I understand if you catch yourself checking someone out, I mean it's human nature. But if they tell you to stop, do not victim blame. Do not tell yourself she was asking for it. Say sorry and move on.

[JessPWicks]

Don't mean to sound like a slut but I don't mind when guys look, the attention turns me on ;)

[Kriss41]

They're really probably not showing off for you. Sometimes girls just act like, well girls. What you described is normal female behaviour. Girls don't show off for guys, unless they really REALLY wanna get some diehard attention. If they've asked you to stop, and they continue acting like that, they're just acting normal.
Not calling you bad for looking at girls. Hey, that's normal. Good to know you're a human being. It's comforting. But they're not doing it to get looked at.

[Snookers]

It pretty much pisses me when they are obvious about it, they act like total assholes, but in rest, I don't really care who is looking. And I refuse to think that I am "provoking" them by the way I dress (e.g. wearing leggings).
Offcourse there are some attention seekers who will wear something see-trough or lift their skirts up to their head.I say that there are many uneducated, ignorant and trashy girls (who dress like prostitutes) and boys (who act like desperate rapists).
Just because a girl (not attention whore) is wearing something tight or has a big butt that doesn't mean they are sex material. Boys should control themselves and be more discreet.

[Zoey]

I'll give you an honest answer as opposed to a politically correct answer. Yes, we want guys to look. Actually, we want attractive guys to look. If you are unattractive, you should be discreet about it.

And yes, when we dress provocatively it is because we want male attention. For example, when a girl wears pants with words across the butt (JUICY, etc) then she is inviting prolonged glances at her ass. Words are for reading and reading requires looking.

[taurus97]

Yeah don't mind the guys looking but there are those who do mind and hey just like to tease and those who just don't like guys.So sorry there really is no right answer.We are very complicated creatures.

[Croconaw]

It doesn't bother me.