View Full Version : What am I?
lyriclover
January 28th, 2013, 01:04 AM
I've labeled myself as a lesbian since before I even knew what that meant. I've always had physical, sexual, mental, and emotional attraction towards girls. Lately however I've felt sexual attraction towards guys. I could never imagine being in an emotional relationship with one and can never imagine being comfortable talking to one. But I can see myself having sex with men. Does this mean I'm bi, or is it normal to be sexually attracted to both genders if you only associate with one?
raindropkissme
January 28th, 2013, 03:33 AM
Have you thought about experimenting? At your age, labelling isn't all that necessary yet!
Lost in the Echo
January 28th, 2013, 03:46 AM
The above poster is right. There is no need to label yourself yet.
At your age, your hormones are raging, and causing you to be really horny.
That could be why you've developed an attraction towards guys.
Honestly, I think you're still a lesbian, but there's really no way to know what your true orientation is, until you've finished puberty, and your hormones have settled down.
Coolboi
January 28th, 2013, 04:02 AM
hey I'm a bi guy maybe you should give a guy a chance. I find girls an guys a lot the same depending on the person your with. there is good an bad in all of us it is normal to look an have feelings for both .just take your time an pick a boy you like an start talking and see if it's what you may like .
PinkFloyd
January 28th, 2013, 05:01 AM
I think it's just a phase. I mean straght teens have this too.
Dunce
January 28th, 2013, 10:32 AM
You might just be curious. But yeah, it's possible you're just sexually attracted to men, while being emotionally and sexually attracted to women. If you're not curious and it stays like this, then you can identify and either lesbian or bi, doesn't matter really :)
Magnus Bane
January 28th, 2013, 03:31 PM
I think you should just try talking to a boy and getting know him. If you can't see it going anywhere then just be friends with him this is the best advise I can give and I hope it help!
lyriclover
January 31st, 2013, 09:53 PM
well the thing is... when I talk to guys they just assume im one of them. I mean I have long hair but I really am just one of the guys. More of a guy than some I know actually.
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