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jayyy-lmao
January 25th, 2013, 09:26 AM
There's this boy in my class. The other day I was very emotional at my grandfather's passing and i just blurted it all out to him. How the poem I wrote for a valentines contest was about him and he was like, OK.

I asked " If i asked you out, would you go out with me" he said maybe.

The day after in school he ignored me. I don't really know what to do. Confront him? Ask him out?

Gwen
January 25th, 2013, 09:55 AM
He's just thinking stuff out he's probably surprised by this sudden thing. Give him some time and if he ignores you for about a week, confront him.

dontfiguremeout
January 25th, 2013, 02:26 PM
Well I say give him some time! Not every day you have girls saying all that to you in one day! Let him think! Then when you feel it's time maybe just start a tiny convo, or let him talk to you.

Coolboi
January 25th, 2013, 02:54 PM
Well I say give him some time! Not every day you have girls saying all that to you in one day! Let him think! Then when you feel it's time maybe just start a tiny convo, or let him talk to you.

well said Jordan ! give him time to think and be honest an truthful .good luck be patient .

Snookers
January 25th, 2013, 04:44 PM
I agree with them, you need to give him some space/time.
Plus
you don't want to look like an "easy" girl. Make him come at you, not vice versa and don't look too desperate for him, neither ignore him.
If he still continues with this, he is not worth your time.

Kyyle
January 25th, 2013, 05:04 PM
not to sound mean but "maybe" is what people say when they mean "no" but don't want to hurt you feelings

Dooby the potato god
January 25th, 2013, 05:16 PM
Give him some time, like the others said.

If he likes you, he likes you, and may well come back and talk with you, or will be willing to talk when you approach him.

However, if he doesn't like you, then you can at least know you tried, but don't get too sad about it, seeing as you're not even attached in terms of a relationship. I know it hurts if that happens, but ya gotta be happy and brush it off.