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Tony X
January 24th, 2013, 11:17 PM
First of all, i do have guy friends but i am having problems with my girl friends. So this friend lets call her V has bern my friend for a long time. Shes my best girl friend. Now i also have 2 other similar girl friends that i got really close with. Lets call her N. so today V and i were talking about my guy friends and and i was telling her that my friends are jealous of me for being really close friends with V(shes pretty and popular etc)

So V and i came up with a fun plan to joke with my friends so i posted a picture of V on instagram that she gave me, we wanted to test what would my bros say about it. But i never realised that my other friend N was also followin me on instgram and saw that i posted a private pic of V


When i got to school N and i would always meet up at this spot and talk about a. Lot of stuff. When i went to say hi she just smiled and we went to class together. She didnt say a word to me or do eyecontact with eachother which is something we usually do.

I asked another friend of N who i am close with and asked her what was up with her why is she ignoring me etc. she said that girls do that all the time and she will talk to u eventually again.

But i feel like that she lied about that because shes really close with N so N most likely told her why shes mad at me

I feel that shes feeling jealous or something. Also after class i went to talk to V and told her that N was ignoring me most likely because of the picture. Then V told me quietly "N is looking at us" (N was at the end of the hallway)


So i think N feels that way because of how close j really am with V.


Now should i try to speak to N or wait till she talks to me?

I dont want to lose a really great friend :( thanks for your time

ackmedsgirl666
January 24th, 2013, 11:30 PM
I think you should give her some space to cool off
She seems overwhelmed maybe even a little jealous that another girl is moving in on what she figured was her territory. Us girls can get possessive like that. Don't worry about it
Give her a few weeks. Maybe send her an email and tell her the picture was a joke and she has nothing to worry about and that things are still good between you two
Maybe try an talk to her face to face
It's possible she has feelings for you and she thinks this other chick is moving in on you before she could express her true feelings for you...

But yeah just give her a bit of a break for now.... And then see how it goes