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crash007
October 28th, 2007, 01:45 AM
Im almost sure im bisexual. I am highly physically attracted to boys but not emotionally and i am both emotionally and physically attracted to girls. My question is, am i a bisexual. also i was wondering, if im bisexual could i still get married to a straight girl and be attracted to boys.

RaisingSand
October 28th, 2007, 02:33 AM
Bi-sexuality is defined as both a physical and emotional attraction to both genders. If you feel no emotional attraction to other males, it is most likey that you are just b-curious, which is not un-common during teenage years. :)

byee
October 28th, 2007, 12:54 PM
How old are you?

As I've said elsewhere (and if I get some time maybe I'll write it up and suggest it as a 'sticky'), it's important to distinguish between the 'Three A's': Attraction, arousal, and (emotional) attachment. You need all 3 when determining your sexuality. And alot of the feelings you have now are also intensified and confused by that rush of hormones. So, it's practically impossible to accurately define who you are, unless deep down you've known for a long time. Also, this 'Bi Curious' label is misleading, because to be 'Bi' means that you've already figured out something important about yourself, while 'Curious' indicates that you're still unsure and collecting data. So, 'Bi Curious' is a true oxymoron. Instead, why not just think of yourself as a 'Normal Teenager'.

Just relax and wait and see what happens. Everybody eventually 'get's it', they figure out who they are. After the fog of puberty lifts.

RaisingSand
October 28th, 2007, 05:26 PM
^You're gonna be a psychologist, aren't you ... :P

byee
October 28th, 2007, 08:53 PM
^You're gonna be a psychologist, aren't you ... :P


LOL! Well, it is the family business!

Serenity
October 28th, 2007, 09:50 PM
Aaaaaaaand getting back on topic, please and thanks. :daisy: