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Walking_in_Shadows
January 24th, 2013, 07:56 PM
Well, I have been in love with this guy for more than two years, but never had the guts to tell him something, I was afraid that if I did, our friedship would be severaly damaged, he didnt liked anyone so I decided I was going to wait and see if he would (in any way) show interest in me. So I did and like 6 months ago he tells me he likes my bestfriend but its something that is not going to last long, I was really worried but I trusted him and some time later he tells me hes not interested anymore...now, at first I wasnt sure if it was love or just a really strong friendship, but with the time I was starting to "feel different" around him, I would get nervous and could look at him in the eyes without realizing how much time had passed (I know it sounds a bit dramatic, anyways thats they way I was feeling >.<). 3 months ago I decided I had to do something, so I started taking him out for icecream or just for walking and talking, It seemed to be working and I was really happy about it..one week ago he tells me that he was starting to feel something for my bestfriend again...I dont know what to do, I never falled in love with someone before and Im afraid to tell my friends because I know that some of them could just run to him and tell everything..of course I dont want that happening...
Help?...an advice? I would like to know how to call his attention...
(Sorry If I made any mistakes :p My english is pretty bad)

FreeFall
January 24th, 2013, 09:55 PM
Stop waiting. You've done enough, tell him your feelings.

Walking_in_Shadows
January 25th, 2013, 09:42 PM
The thing is that I dont know how is he going to react to that and I really dont want to lose him..

stev
January 25th, 2013, 10:20 PM
I think you really need to think which is better the friendship that you have with him...or the relationship that you could have with him . But you need to consider that relationships don't always work and sometimes they fail and when that happens the friendship can hardly ever be mended. I'm saying this because I had a bestfriend turns out we both liked each other and now I can't talk to her since we broke up....because things are way to awkward. I think you need to think hard if your willing to take that risk before telling him your true feelings.

Walking_in_Shadows
January 31st, 2013, 08:42 PM
This..really made me think...as much as it can hurt...I prefer to have him like a friend rather to lose him in a relationship, thanks a lot for all your advices