My Friend Worked It Out...

[JustAnotherGay]

Hey, so one of my best friends started commenting on my "campness" today (i'm not camp!) and she asked if I was Gay. Obviously I immediately denied it, but then she started joining up the dots and she keeps winding me up and asking me. I don't really know what to do now, should I come clean to her, or should I keep denying it. I ideally would love to tell her, but I don't think I could deal with the consequences of doing so. Any advice is grateful, thanks!

[ackmedsgirl666]

i would just tell her if she is someone you trust

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Don't feel pressured to tell her. Only do it when you're ready.

[LiamC]

Being asked is a good way to come out, and it's lucky if you get that oppurtunity. But you still have to be ready :( If you trust her, tell her, but do it on your terms. It is quite annoying when people assume to be fair, so I know how you feel. My friend did the same but I just told her because I was ready (I just didn't know how to say it).

[The_Survivor]

Do what you feel is right. Only do it if you trust her. If not, and she keeps it up, that's harassment

[Straya]

If you trust her tell her if not she dosent need to know

[Brice]

Personally, I'd be really mad and I would stop talking to the person for a while. But that's not what you should do. In this sitution I'd be doing the wrong thing!! What you need to do is decide if you trust her. And then tell her, if you do.

[Magnus Bane]

I wod tell her when your ready. If she keeps doing it I wouldn't talk to her for awhile to prove a point.

[Apollo.]

This happened to me recently with one of my friends, I eventually gave up and admitted it but kept back half the truth just so I didn't have to listen to anymore insufferable rambling about it. Saying that make sure your comfortable telling the person, it's not a huge deal for me because I have a bf and a couple of very very close friends/family know. It all depends on how much you trust the person and and if you are ready to tell them.

[unusedaccount]

Hey, so one of my best friends started commenting on my "campness" today (i'm not camp!) and she asked if I was Gay. Obviously I immediately denied it, but then she started joining up the dots and she keeps winding me up and asking me. I don't really know what to do now, should I come clean to her, or should I keep denying it. I ideally would love to tell her, but I don't think I could deal with the consequences of doing so. Any advice is grateful, thanks!

Haha! :P If she's accepting, then go for it! Why would you want to deny it? If you think she's gonna freak, then don't do it. If she's a true friend, she'll understand and accept you for who you are. ;)

[Eth_94123]

Hey, so one of my best friends started commenting on my "campness" today (i'm not camp!) and she asked if I was Gay. Obviously I immediately denied it, but then she started joining up the dots and she keeps winding me up and asking me. I don't really know what to do now, should I come clean to her, or should I keep denying it. I ideally would love to tell her, but I don't think I could deal with the consequences of doing so. Any advice is grateful, thanks!


If she is someone you truely trust her then tell her and if you already have the congratulations :)

[JustAnotherGay]

If she is someone you truely trust her then tell her and if you already have the congratulations :)
Hey, I chickened out in the end and I didn't tell her, so i'm still stuck in Narnia for the time being! :P Thanks anyway!

[Eth_94123]

Hey, I chickened out in the end and I didn't tell her, so i'm still stuck in Narnia for the time being! :P Thanks anyway!

Awww, well I'm sure when you are confident enough you will start telling people I found coming out the best thing I ever did but everyone's experience is different and I hope when you do come out, that it is just as positive as mine :) and it's ok :)