Casual sex: Wrong? Not a good idea?

[Eric57]

Here's the thing, there is this guy I have been talking to. Basically I feel like all he is after is sex. If I'm being honest here, I actually have no problem with that. It's not something I would normally even consider doing, but I am kind of wanting to go through with it....

It's a different experience for me. I've never had a situation like this occur. So I'm not sure if it's really a good idea. Again, it's not something I would typically do, but I kind of want to do it. Have it just be a one (or even two) time thing. No big deal. No strings attached. Is that wrong?

[Lost in the Echo]

Some people have different opinions on this, but what's your opinion on it?
If you see nothing wrong with it, then do it.
If you're having second thoughts about this, then it's probably best not to go through with this.

Do whatever you want, it's your decision, nobody else's.

[Dimentio]

I think personally the reason you might want to do it is cause or hormones but if not sorry if i offended you!
And yet again personal views but i think sex should be shared only with your true love or at least with the one you will be with for a LONG time of your life! So do what you want to do not what others tell you to do but make sure what you do you will never regret okay :)

[Troy35216]

i know this isn't answering the question but every time I hear people talking bad about "casual sex" i always wonder if that means they prefer "formal sex" and I picture people in tuxedos doing the deed.

anyway, i am not a good person to answer this cuz i have never had sex with anyone but my own opinion is if all he is after is sex and nothing else then you might as well just be a porno or something. if all you want is sex too then i guess that it okay but for myself i would rather be more than just a porno for someone i would want it to mean at least a little something. but that is just me and i have no experience so you can't go by that. i guess just do whatever feels right. but don't do it in a tuxedo tho

[somegirl]

I think that if you are attracted to this person then go for it if you want. Just make sure that you use some protection because you don't want to get any STDs or a pregnancy if that is applicable.

You can always try it and see how you feel after. It if bothers you, then well, you don't need to do it again.

[FreeFall]

If you think you can do it without any attachments growing onto him and getting off of the same page as what you both want, then go for it.

Just be safe and smart.

[txtwister13]

The emotional connection that you feel for your partner is what most people look for - the sex is just icing on the cake ..... that being said if you both agree that its going to be casual, no stings attached sex then thats fine too - as long as you think you can handle that. most of these kind of relationships go wrong because one person starts to develop feelings and the other dosen't. only you can decide if its right for you.

[Aceso]

I'm in an open relationship - We have the 'benefits', however we also have feelings for each other. Though we're not 'official', this is only because of the situation we're in (Distance, age, we're both in the process of moving and also want to get to know eachother more before we commit). It leaves us open to see others if we wish, though it seems neither want to look for anyone else right now.
Might be an idea if you wish, personally it works amazingly for both of us and been the simplest and easiest too - we have a great connection because of it and the friendship along with everything you get in a relationship. Best of both :)

[Wrestler0821]

You gotta protect yourself and be sure that your partner knows that it is to hook up and not a relationship

[raindropkissme]

The emotional connection that you feel for your partner is what most people look for - the sex is just icing on the cake ..... that being said if you both agree that its going to be casual, no stings attached sex then thats fine too - as long as you think you can handle that. most of these kind of relationships go wrong because one person starts to develop feelings and the other dosen't. only you can decide if its right for you.

I second this!

[PinkFloyd]

If you feel like it's okay then go for it! I mean it really is up to you what is acceptable when it comes to that topic.

[billiam183]

Here's the thing, there is this guy I have been talking to. Basically I feel like all he is after is sex. If I'm being honest here, I actually have no problem with that. It's not something I would normally even consider doing, but I am kind of wanting to go through with it....

It's a different experience for me. I've never had a situation like this occur. So I'm not sure if it's really a good idea. Again, it's not something I would typically do, but I kind of want to do it. Have it just be a one (or even two) time thing. No big deal. No strings attached. Is that wrong?

Well are you a virgin? If you are, I would wait. Not because you will be a dirty deflowered waste if you have sex with him, but because once you meet someone special. Then you will wish you had.

However if your not a virgin; I say go for it (safely) if your comfortable and you want to.

[LolaHaze]

Well are you a virgin? If you are, I would wait. Not because you will be a dirty deflowered waste if you have sex with him, but because once you meet someone special. Then you will wish you had.

However if your not a virgin; I say go for it (safely) if your comfortable and you want to.

Meh. I wouldn't say he/she is a "dirty deflowered waste", but it IS something you'll remember forever.

That first time shouldn't be casual.