Experimenting?

[xler8]

I've been looking through some peoples posts and some of them have been about them experimenting with other guys, and i was wonder is it REALLY not gay if you give another guy a blow job or something? Or even have sex? I've just never really thought of experimenting as an option for me so i'm very curious.

[CurtisCody]

No it is gay and not in the happy way, yes it maybe alright to experiment but with the opposite gender, unless you are gay then experiment with whoever you like but you are not actual experimenting properly unless it is with the correct gender.

[dan96]

if you want to be pedantic about it, the sexual act is homosexual, because it is with the same sex, but in an emotional sense, if it's experimentation you're after... then not really. It's a grey area, but generally speaking, it's okay to explore the same sex, because of what a teen goes through mentally and physically at this age, so dw too much about it

[jerry102]

Well it all subjective to be honest, some will tell you it gay to experiment with another while other will tell it not, there are boundaries when your experimenting, and as you the more thing you experiment with the closer you get the boundary that is gay sex, and you may come to that boundary and may like it or not, you just have to decide what you like, and you have to make that decision if you want to continue down that path or change course, honestly just do what you want.

[Nellerin]

I've been looking through some peoples posts and some of them have been about them experimenting with other guys, and i was wonder is it REALLY not gay if you give another guy a blow job or something? Or even have sex? I've just never really thought of experimenting as an option for me so i'm very curious.

It is not gay at all. Having sex is going a little far for younger teens in general (idk what your age is) but definitely a blowjob is not gay. That's why it is called experimenting.

[staples]

it not gay because you just finding out if you like it or not

[BakeBake]

I've been looking through some peoples posts and some of them have been about them experimenting with other guys, and i was wonder is it REALLY not gay if you give another guy a blow job or something? Or even have sex? I've just never really thought of experimenting as an option for me so i'm very curious.

People have put a stereotype on the word "gay" in this generation. Gay used to mean happy, but that is obviously not used anymore. Now it means that a MAN is in LOVE with another MAN! So technically, an activity (Jacking off together, hand jobs, blow jobs, and sex) cannot be considered "gay". People just don't understand that. Sometimes like it is just between two good friends that just want to have fun and bond... Like most of the guys who are "experimenting" out there... So, all you have to do is find a friend who you can trust (so they won't spill the beans), and someone who is loyal. But to summarize, no it is not gay to participate in any of the activities that you have spoke of. To be "gay" a MAN must be in a LOVE relationship with another MAN, and that means that they would want to get married and spend the rest of their life together... Don't worry about it. Be safe, and have fun.

[Luke91]

Who knows better what feel good to a boy but another boy. Experimenting is not gay at a young age. It is just learning what thing feel like.

[Canadian Dream]

I'd consider bjs and sex gay, but just masturbating with someone else the same sex wouldn't cross the line yet.

[imagine95]

They call it experimentation for a reason. Everyone goes through that phase so BJs, HJs etc. are fine. Sex may be a bit far but there's nothing wrong with trying these things.

[Fireflame]

If you both are not gay then no it is not gay to experiment with one another. Whether it is jerking off together or giving each other oral

[Aaron55]

Gay is too loose of a word to use. You are using it like a noun, and not an adjective. You don't automatically become part of the gay demographic just because you do something typically, socially accepted as "gay". Just like if I were to squash a bug, I guess that means I've killed something, but no one goes around calling me a killer in the true sense of the word. So what I'm getting at here is that labels like "gay" are all in your head, Just do whatever you want and dgaf what they say. You're only gay if you think you are, what you think is, gay.

[PetrusRomanus]

For me and I do believe it is gay. Bj in short is oral sex.