Hurting over a girl..Pissed, upset, and frustrated

[JustinPCGamer]

Hello everyone. I'll start by saying this bitch was just trying to use me in order to hurt my close friend.

Follow up from this:
http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?p=2111441#post2111441

Well last Tuesday she asked me out. I knew not to trust her because last school year she hurt my close friend really bad. She liked him, but started causing drama among her friends and pulled him into the mess she created. Then Melanie got me involved and starting making up lies to try and break my friendship up. The bitch cheated on Ian(My close friend), then dumped him. Ian then was in a depression like state, for a month. I kept telling him she is wrong and there are so many other girls. I told him not to dwell over her but he continued to do so.

I'll sum up my previous thread. Melanie asked me out in social studies class and I lied saying "Oh, I have strict parents so I don't know if they will allow me to date." She said, "You're 16, you should be allowed to date." To buy myself an extra day to think, I said "Well, I still have to obey them I will ask and if they say yes, then I will go out with you." The next day comes and she approached me in the hallway while I was switching classes. Her face was really red and she was tense. I could tell something was wrong but I didn't know what at the time. Melanie said, "I just got out of a really bad relationship. I'm not looking to date anyone right now." Me lying said, "My parents said no, so it wouldn't have worked out either way." I then went to my next class and of course her two gossip friends Ronia and Crystal and her ex boyfriend Mike are in my class. This is a support class so there is only like five or six of us and two teachers. I heard them all talking about me, and I said "Honesty, you guys can talk about me out loud. You don't need to whisper, I really don't care what you have to say about me." Also, I didn't know Mike was her ex until later in that period when I heard him say it to the two other bitches.

I adopted the new philosophy about 1 year ago to simply not give a fuck what people think about me since I am anti-social. Her friends didn't know how to reply, they just said something like "It really doesn't matter." I didn't say that in a nasty tone either, I just said it in a regular way. Anyway, of course I was seated next to her ex boyfriend. I see something from the corner of my eye while working on a biology homework. I move my head and there is a naked picture of Melanie on Mike's phone. First thought was "What the fuck? Why?" I took my eyes off his phone and moved my head back to my paper as fast as I could. Mike held up his phone to show the nude picture to Crystal and Ronia. They started laughing and went "OMG, she really sent it to you." He said, "Damn right." I'm thinking, well that explains why she was so tense and red earlier. Seriously, what a fucked up bitch, what is wrong with her? Who does that?

Plus, god only knows what Mike could do with such a picture. I had social studies with Melanie next period and she looked horrible. A lot of people kept approaching her. I heard Melanie say, "I shouldn't have taken the nude pic of me. I can't fucken believe I sent it." That picture was and still is in my mind. It was bothering me for the rest of that day. The period after social studies was my off period. I went to my guidance counselor and told her everything that happened. She then contacted the principal and both Mike and Melanie were suspended. This really has been bothering me and it hurts. What is wrong with her? I almost forgot why I don't associate with the rest of my grade but now I remember. It's because nearly everyone is fucked up except for me. That's why I play computer games all day; aside from school and homework of course. I also guess this is why females are so fucken stupid. I swear those bitches. This has really just been bothering the fuck out of me. What to do? Also, are all females stupid like that?

[FreeFall]

Holy shit. Can you even see other people past that long and elegant nose of your's?

You're not better than any of these people, anti-social or not. You sound like such a great guy judging everyone, being condensing, thinking so damn poorly of others and placing them under your feet? Hm. You seem to hate women too. Please don't ever date until you know how to treat females. Speaking of;

No all females are not stupid, your generalization shows how much about people in general you really know.

How are they bitches? Do they do things that are really that bad, or do they do things you don't agree with and therefore you don't like them?

How is Melanie fucking stupid? She made a mistake. Teenagers are in general big fucking morons. They have this "oh it can happen to you, but nnneeeeevvvveeeerrr ever me!". She probably thought she could trust Mike, that he wouldn't be a bastard, that she had security in him. She was wrong, and now there are bigger consequences than she knows how to deal with or even thought about. She's just being a typical teen, being stupid.

But who are you to cast the stones you're throwing?
Who are you to look down on them with such disdain?
Who are you to think them so worthless?
How damn special, how perfect are you?
You don't feel bad that her stupid ass has made a fool of herself, a mockery, a shameable woman? Ever hear of the term bullycide and how she may not be far from that?
You must be a wonderful.

[JustinPCGamer]

Holy shit. Can you even see other people past that long and elegant nose of your's?

You're not better than any of these people, anti-social or not. You sound like such a great guy judging everyone, being condensing, thinking so damn poorly of others and placing them under your feet? Hm. You seem to hate women too. Please don't ever date until you know how to treat females. Speaking of;

No all females are not stupid, your generalization shows how much about people in general you really know.

How are they bitches? Do they do things that are really that bad, or do they do things you don't agree with and therefore you don't like them?

How is Melanie fucking stupid? She made a mistake. Teenagers are in general big fucking morons. They have this "oh it can happen to you, but nnneeeeevvvveeeerrr ever me!". She probably thought she could trust Mike, that he wouldn't be a bastard, that she had security in him. She was wrong, and now there are bigger consequences than she knows how to deal with or even thought about. She's just being a typical teen, being stupid.

But who are you to cast the stones you're throwing?
Who are you to look down on them with such disdain?
Who are you to think them so worthless?
How damn special, how perfect are you?
You don't feel bad that her stupid ass has made a fool of herself, a mockery, a shameable woman? Ever hear of the term bullycide and how she may not be far from that?
You must be a wonderful.

She's a fucking whore, Mike was her 22nd boyfriend. She made a lot of mistakes and continues to do so. All she wants is fucking attention. I'm more mature than everyone else. You're right, teenagers are fucking stupid and the way girls act is disgusting. You're also fucked up because everyone is bad. That part reminds me of myself. Also, where does bullycide come into play? I know not to rape females. That's horrible, I think that is enough.

Edit: You're a female so you must defend your sex.

[FreeFall]

No. I defend her because you're acting like such a bogus jerk.

Self-centered, and god-sent you're acting, sexist as hell too.

22nd boyfriend does not a whore make.
Why are you counting? Or keeping count? That's creepy.

Bullycide is not rape.
You're not better than your peers in your treatment of a potential victim.

Nah, I'm not fucked up.
I'm pretty fucking stable and sensible.

Why don't you go meet everyone ever in this world before you prance about that high horse of your's? Not everyone is bad.

[JustinPCGamer]

No. I defend her because you're acting like such a bogus jerk.

Self-centered, and god-sent you're acting, sexist as hell too.

22nd boyfriend does not a whore make.
Why are you counting? Or keeping count? That's creepy.

Bullycide is not rape.
You're not better than your peers in your treatment of a potential victim.

Nah, I'm not fucked up.
I'm pretty fucking stable and sensible.

Why don't you go meet everyone ever in this world before you prance about that high horse of your's? Not everyone is bad.

Wow, what a bitch. People like you need to die, I swear. You obviously just read everything with a closed self centered mind. I'm better than my peers because I actually get my work done, don't talk back to teachers, I am respectful, and I don't put other people down. No one in my grade dislikes me in anyway. I just don't interact. You're clearly hurting over something. I can tell just from your response, there is no way in hell you're stable.
"Nah, I'm not fucked up.
I'm pretty fucking stable and sensible. " <-- Clearly not. You need help just like the next person does. You were just good at one point in your life, you aren't now. That's a shame. The only problem with me that you were able to identify was with girls. A lot of them are stupid. You also fail to understand that Melanie has a serious problem. Most girls don't take nude pictures of themselves and send them to their ex? How could she even trust her ex, if they broke up? Fuck off and seek a psychiatrist. Thanks for replying to my thread though. Anything else you have to say, I'm simply just not replying. I already wasted two posts arguing with you. Good day.

[ZENOX]

Man to Man not including that self centered all men are jerks bitch above.

I agree with you man, even in my own school I've know girls who have gotten pregnant and the guy just moves outa town, hell to make it worse one of my best friends (girl who I used to be absolutely in love with) started dating this 21 year old reject who gets her pregnant, beats her ,and then just fucking leaves but I know I helped caused him to leave after I beat the shit outa him for not taking responsibility. So hey don't worry its human nature for girls like the one who replayed to you to be an absolute BITCH, but the same goes for guys who will always almost be assholes, so don't feel like your hurt or hurt her and just don't get involved with that type of person, and I think she deserved what she got.:cool:

[Vaulter]

All I can do is laugh at this whole thing. You have Justin and Zenox "ya bro, beetchs and hoes, girl above is super teh gey man." Omg girl has to defend her gender.

No, you're wrong, shes right. Justin has this hoity toity attidute and he thinks hes better than everybody in his grade, above it all, etc. You want to be mature?
Step 1, stop using the word Bitch.
Step 2, keep your mouth shut for 4 more years. At the moment nothing you do, at all, is important. You're just waiting to be an adult, unfortunately your brain likes to tell itself you're already there which results in posts like this.

Everything that happens in high school is because of hormones. I'm speaking from experience after absolutely hating high school, then looking back and seeing how stupid I was and how I reacted to situations. That this right whole deal right here. She doesn't know whats going on, and unfortunately you THINK you know whats going on.

Just quit being mad, go play some League of Legends or CoD, and wait for college where nothing you've done in the past matters in the slightest, and nothing anybody else does effects you.

Don't go through life telling yourself you're better than others. Wake up in the morning and say "I'm awesome." not "I'm better than all my stupid fucking 'peers' blah blah blah".

[Marcus_Stockley]

Honestly, you're both being a bitch. Sure, she's a slut, but that doesn't give you the right to act like a bitch behind her back. Drop it, and move. The fuck. on! There's plenty of women out there and you can not judge all women on one slut. Obviously she wasn't the one for you, but don't hate on women because one of them broke your heart. Move on and don't be such a jerk about it.

[JustinPCGamer]

All I can do is laugh at this whole thing. You have Justin and Zenox "ya bro, beetchs and hoes, girl above is super teh gey man." Omg girl has to defend her gender.

No, you're wrong, shes right. Justin has this hoity toity attidute and he thinks hes better than everybody in his grade, above it all, etc. You want to be mature?
Step 1, stop using the word Bitch.
Step 2, keep your mouth shut for 4 more years. At the moment nothing you do, at all, is important. You're just waiting to be an adult, unfortunately your brain likes to tell itself you're already there which results in posts like this.

Everything that happens in high school is because of hormones. I'm speaking from experience after absolutely hating high school, then looking back and seeing how stupid I was and how I reacted to situations. That this right whole deal right here. She doesn't know whats going on, and unfortunately you THINK you know whats going on.

Just quit being mad, go play some League of Legends or CoD, and wait for college where nothing you've done in the past matters in the slightest, and nothing anybody else does effects you.

Don't go through life telling yourself you're better than others. Wake up in the morning and say "I'm awesome." not "I'm better than all my stupid fucking 'peers' blah blah blah".

Yes, you're right. I want to apologize to you and the two other posters. I wrote this thread out of rage and frustration. Sorry if I came off as a complete jerk. I definitely over used the word 'bitch.' The swearing just made me sound uneducated and stupid. I was really frustrated over the situation but that still doesn't justify my actions in this thread. I hope you and the other two posters can understand my reasoning and accept my apology. If you can't I can understand that. Thank you all for the feedback and have a nice day.