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Kochanek
January 23rd, 2013, 05:45 AM
Hi guys and girls!

It sometimes seems to me, that the more often I masturbate the more I feel the need for sex. And after a longer time (some weeks or months) without having sex, masturbation even doesn't help anymore - it only alleviates the hornyness for a little while, which means that I need to masturbate even more often, but without having a real satisfaction. I therefore already tried several times not to masturbate, but really couldn't stand it more than two days.

If i had sex with a girl, I usually need to masturbate afterwards thinking about her. But then the urge to masturbate is gone for sometimes several days - which I really feel to be a relief. And what is astonishing to me: It even doesn't matter if I have an orgasm during sex, even if i only make a girl cum with my fingers it gives me a kind of relief, that I don't need to masturbate for some days.

What is your experience about all this?
How often do you masturbate?
How often do you have sex?
How long can masturbation replace sex?
Does masturbation increase or lower your lust for sex?
And does sex replace masturbation?
Does having sex lower or increase your need to masturbate?

janisj182
January 23rd, 2013, 06:45 AM
Hi guys and girls!

It sometimes seems to me, that the more often I masturbate the more I feel the need for sex. And after a longer time (some weeks or months) without having sex, masturbation even doesn't help anymore - it only alleviates the hornyness for a little while, which means that I need to masturbate even more often, but without having a real satisfaction. I therefore already tried several times not to masturbate, but really couldn't stand it more than two days.

If i had sex with a girl, I usually need to masturbate afterwards thinking about her. But then the urge to masturbate is gone for sometimes several days - which I really feel to be a relief

What is your experience about all this? i had the same thing when i first started
How often do you masturbate? atleast 1 a day
How often do you have sex? maybe 2 a month
How long can masturbation replace sex? about a day, then the urge gets bad
Does masturbation increase or lower your lust for sex? increase
And does sex replace masturbation? most cases yes
Does having sex lower or increase your need to masturbate?
having sex lowers my need for mastubation because it is like i unleash everything for a while and the my body is like tired or whatever, it is kinda hard to explain fotr me because i am new to this whole forums thing, just look at my rep:( really i have found that it is just different upon the person really

Swagging god
January 23rd, 2013, 12:30 PM
Well I agree with Janisj182 I only masturbate to relieve my hornyness when I can't find a decent sex partner ( while I 'm single. If in a relationship that isn't long distancre I have sex more like 3 to for times a week)

Kochanek
January 31st, 2013, 08:01 AM
No more answers? :-(

anyone50
January 31st, 2013, 06:14 PM
Yes masturbation is for the times when your horny and no sex partner is available or you choose to not have sex for the time being. Replacing sex with masturbation when you have a sexual partner doesn't usually work in a relationship and vise versa if your in a sexual relationship masturbation is still a good way to enjoy some alone time as well as masturbating together. So one will never replace the other

Lil Red
January 31st, 2013, 08:24 PM
I think both are great and do both.... I don't think one ever replaces the other at least it doesn't for me