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Gameboy
January 22nd, 2013, 02:16 PM
In our class a boy ALWAYS sits next to a girl. It's just some kind of rule so people talk less in class or something. I sat next to an awesome girl, let's call her M. So M and I were just talking the first week we were sitting together we were just talking and it was quite fun being around her. Please do keep in mind I never had a girlfriend nor any attention from a girl until I met her! I hesitate every time I say something in the beginning, like what if she takes it wrong or something, then I'm sitting next to someone who hates me for 3 months! Well, that wasn't the case luckily :) and a month later the teacher said for the first time that I needed to be quiet, which was the first time in my life. Go figure, right!? Well after that happened a few times, my friends start teasing me with it. I get that of course, but I didn't mind. They didn't drop the word "flirting" in the conversation yet, so I was totally oblivious of what I was doing. Anyways, exams passed and we got our new seats in class. Now I sit next to another girl, let's call her L. Same story with M ( it's three weeks now since the new places in class ) and a few days ago a friend said " You're kind of flirting a lot with her, aren't you? " well I was confused, but now I understand it. The problem is, this all goes natural...
I also can't take any hints, since I have no experience at all. The girls ( we have different classrooms and in every one of them I sit next to a girl ) I talk with all seem to laugh and stuff, but I really need "more experienced people" to help me with this.

TL;DR I flirt too much without experience, help !?

Sorry for the wall of text. Thank you for reading though :) !
FreeFall
January 22nd, 2013, 02:29 PM
How are you flirting? Like are you complimenting them? Giving direct attention to them and giving compliments?

Because just talking and being normal, isn't flirting. I'm bit confused but if you're happy and no one's getting hurt, all is well! :D
janisj182
January 22nd, 2013, 02:37 PM
do it all the time
Gameboy
January 23rd, 2013, 07:51 AM
How are you flirting? Like are you complimenting them? Giving direct attention to them and giving compliments?

Because just talking and being normal, isn't flirting. I'm bit confused but if you're happy and no one's getting hurt, all is well! :D

I was confused myself too :P
But yeah I sometimes give them compliments and they often ask for help ( even though they're smarter than me ) thanks for replying :)
moneta173
January 23rd, 2013, 10:30 AM
What do you want from these girls? If you want them to be your girlfriends be careful not to become their friend.

I mean, it's a good thing talking with girls you don't know and a lot of boys don't do that! But pay attention because you may be put in friendzone...