I screwed up!!

[thatcountrykid]

Alright hered the deal. There's this girl i like... no i love her. i really wanted to ask her out but i was just to afrai of rejection. She has a boyfriend now tha is way better than me. I took too long. I blinked and my shot was gone. she is the most beautiful girl i know. i had my chance. Heck! even our parents wanted us together. Tell me what i should do :(

[CharlieHorse]

Gosh, I have felt the same way many times before. It was painful, but I had to climb over my feelings for her.
My advice: talk to her and tell her your feelings. DO NOT BE AFRAID TO TELL HER EVERYTHING. Heck, you could even tell her what you just said here.

[Lost in the Echo]

Aww, sorry. :(

There isn't really anything you can do now. All you can do is hope they break up eventually ( which is likely, most teen relationships don't last ).

Be optimistic, and hope you'll get another chance. That's all you can do.

[thatcountrykid]

[QUOTE=thatcountrykid;2109373]I took too long. I blinked and my shot was gone.

as i said in the quote, i took too long you know? i know im probably wait for a shot to open up that never will:(

[Gwen]

I had a very similar thing happen to me a few years ago the best thing to do is to just keep on going maybe find someone else, heck who knows you might get another shot later on.

[thatcountrykid]

The thing with that is I can't find anyone else. I mean there are cute and nice girls but that's all they are.

[dontfiguremeout]

Honestly if you really like the girl, wait. There could be a chance that she breaks up with him soon. Who knows! But if you can't find another person, then just wait for her.

[chrisawesome]

That is the exact same problem I'm going through right now. I have mixed feeling about this girl, is she right for me or is she not right for me? Last year she would flirt with me and I couldnt tell if she was being friendly or horny. When she got a boyfriend, she hardly talked to me in the same way she used to. Now this year, the exact same thing is happening.
left brain, She couldnt really like me because she doesnt seem my type
right brain, She is so hot. I really like her attitude and she is the perfect description of my dream girl. She can help me break and expand my social barrier

And then a third party comes in that is more like her and she drifts away from me. Why dont I have the balls to ask her out. Is there something signaling me to stay away? Yet, opposites do attract and I need someone who is kind of opposite to me in order to get me out of my rut.

My brain and my heart is killing me. I am so stressed

My parents say that I should go out with a different girl, but she is too much like me and I cant see me getting out of that rut. And also she isnt half as hot as the other one. WHAT THE HELL DO I DO NOW. No there arent any other fish in the sea, there arent any clones.

--I would suggest just being friends with her and she will tell you about her relationship problems with the other guy and you can make her realize he isnt as perfect for her as you are. Looks like thats what Im going to have to do--

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[Gandalf]

Alright hered the deal. There's this girl i like... no i love her. i really wanted to ask her out but i was just to afrai of rejection. She has a boyfriend now tha is way better than me. I took too long. I blinked and my shot was gone. she is the most beautiful girl i know. i had my chance. Heck! even our parents wanted us together. Tell me what i should do :(

Teen relationships do have a habit of blowing over, if you maintain a friendship then if she were to become single again you'd be able to speak to her (give her time to get over the relationship)

If you speak to her, just be honest and respect her opinion too.

[anyone50]

There's not a whole lot you can do at the present time but wait and see if another chance comes along with this girl I'm sure she's not planning on marring this guy. when the chance comes again learn from your mistakes of the past and don't procrastinate. I'm not sure why you mentioned that this guy is way better than you but girls admire guys with self confidence and by having more confidence in yourself will be a plus when she becomes single again.

[FizZ]

Alright hered the deal. There's this girl i like... no i love her. i really wanted to ask her out but i was just to afrai of rejection. She has a boyfriend now tha is way better than me. I took too long. I blinked and my shot was gone. she is the most beautiful girl i know. i had my chance. Heck! even our parents wanted us together. Tell me what i should do :(

bro.. dont be stupid.. -_- she has her BF now..
dont make to the point that they will break uo and you is the source.. dont destroy relationship.. just find another girl..
Again.. dont ruin any relationship..
Hope you understand..

[unusedaccount]

Alright hered the deal. There's this girl i like... no i love her. i really wanted to ask her out but i was just to afrai of rejection. She has a boyfriend now tha is way better than me. I took too long. I blinked and my shot was gone. she is the most beautiful girl i know. i had my chance. Heck! even our parents wanted us together. Tell me what i should do :(

Wait till she breaks up with the guy she's with now. Then make a move and ask her. Don't downgrade yourself dude! Your just as good as the guy she's with now... Be confident when you ask her.

[AbbaZabba]

Not much to do, but wait. But I'll tell you this, you didn't screw up, you learned. Good luck and there are plenty of fish in the ocean, so to me, why wait, there's probably a lot of girls out the that would like to do something. And you liked her, love is a pretty powerful word in it's true form. Look at relationships as friendships and love comes naturally.

[Bri-Bri]

1. You shouldn't think that someone is way better then you!
2. let things play out on there own. she will realize at some point that she is with the wrong guy. she will leave him or what ever plays out between them, then BOOM! you get your chance!!!!!!!!
You just have to have faith in yourself, and just believe that you will get your chance. it may not be right away but the time will come!! keep your head up until then!!!

[brandon1995]

1. act faster next time.
2. wait for her to break up with him.

Act like you have selfconfidence even it you don't always.

[chrisawesome]

Gotta act quick and do what your heart says!

I feel your pain bud!!!
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