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bubble21
January 22nd, 2013, 12:28 AM
Ok so I've been going out with this girl for maybe a week or so. We've only been out three or four times but three out of the four times her mom has been ther too. I don't know that it means like, does she invite he mom or her mom think something is gonna happen. Cause she can tell her mom not to come if she wanted to and her mom would be fine but, whatever I just want to know if she thinks of me as a friend (inviting her mom),or what. :/ thank you for your advice.
Mortal Coil
January 22nd, 2013, 12:31 AM
Well, have you tried asking your girlfriend about it? I mean, I understand that you can't meet without her mom but surely you can phone up and talk about it. Until you know why this is going on there isn't much that can be done to give you two the privacy that you ought to have as a couple.
FreeFall
January 22nd, 2013, 12:36 AM
All you said about her mom, that if she told her to stay home she would, did she say that? Do you know that for certain?
If you're both 15, chaperoned dates aren't that surprising. Uncommon, yes, but not out of the blue.
dontfiguremeout
January 22nd, 2013, 12:41 AM
That basically means her mom just isn't ready for her daughter to go on dates alone. It really has nothing to deal with you or you being a bad guy, it's the fact her mom isn't ready for her daughter go on dates alone. Plus you are the new guy, so she wants to make sure you are a good guy, because who knows your gf history with guys in the past. I wouldn't worry about it right now.
somegirl
January 22nd, 2013, 02:26 AM
That basically means her mom just isn't ready for her daughter to go on dates alone. It really has nothing to deal with you or you being a bad guy, it's the fact her mom isn't ready for her daughter go on dates alone. Plus you are the new guy, so she wants to make sure you are a good guy, because who knows your gf history with guys in the past. I wouldn't worry about it right now.
Yea I think this is really what's going on. Maybe after a few more dates, this will stop and you two can actually be alone.
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