Help with sexual identification

[Ghostneedle]

I'm 15 and have been attracted physically and emotionally to one of my friends who is also a guy for a long time now (3 years?) and I am also attracted physically to other guys and could see myself in a homosexual relationship. The confusing thing is I've started to feel more physically attracted to girls also. Am I still gay but horny, am I bi or am I turning straight?

[tundravortex]

well if you like guys and girls than your bi because you like both

[Lunar]

I'm 15 and have been attracted physically and emotionally to one of my friends who is also a guy for a long time now (3 years?) and I am also attracted physically to other guys and could see myself in a homosexual relationship. The confusing thing is I've started to feel more physically attracted to girls also. Am I still gay but horny, am I bi or am I turning straight?

You could be bi-curious, or even bi-sexual (leaning towards guys). Being bi isn't a "I like girls and boys 50/50," because the sexuality spectrum bends.

[Lost in the Echo]

Things like this, can be confusing during puberty, and that's normal.
Your hormones are raging, and that causes you be horny, and develop attraction to just about anyone.

Don't feel the need to label yourself now, wait until puberty is over.
Your true sexual orientation should be clear to you after puberty, once your hormones have settled.

You have no control over this, don't stress over it, just go with the flow. :)

[Gandalf]

I'm 15 and have been attracted physically and emotionally to one of my friends who is also a guy for a long time now (3 years?) and I am also attracted physically to other guys and could see myself in a homosexual relationship. The confusing thing is I've started to feel more physically attracted to girls also. Am I still gay but horny, am I bi or am I turning straight?

Well your hormones are certainly at full force so I'd give it time before trying to rush into labels, as others said though you could be bi if these feelings towards girls become stronger, you seem so far to understand the difference between the emotional and sexual feelings so that is good, and we all get odd or unusual thoughts from time to time regarding sex so if you're experiencing that I'd just relax and try to understand what you like or dislike and then enjoy it, it's a long process but it's kind of the whole point of puberty.

Besides that I'll just say that we're always here if you need anythingelse :)
Hope I've helped.

[nick]

You are probably bisexual but you certainly worry too much about labels. What does it matter? If you love a girl at the moment and have sexual and emotional feelings for her then go for it. If next time it's a guy then the same applies. I don't feel I fit any labels, to be brutally honest I think of myself as a gay guy that can fuck girls. You do not need a label, you are yourself, and that's all that matters.

[Ghostneedle]

Problem is that I labelled myself as gay in highschool a few years ago (when I started having feelings for my friend), do you think this will effect me in college when I go there this year?

[Lost in the Echo]

Problem is that I labelled myself as gay in highschool a few years ago (when I started having feelings for my friend), do you think this will effect me in college when I go there this year?

It still appears that you're gay, but your raging hormones are causing you to have some attraction towards girls. This is basically the same ( except reversed ) as a straight girl or guy having attraction towards the same gender, that's what raging hormones will do.

But really, why are labels so important? Just live your life.:)
Don't stress over this.

[MDawg143]

Dont label yourself :P just like who you like and date who you want to date. It doesnt matter in the end.

[Brice]

If you really want to label youself, you're bi. But like others have said, don't worry about the label. It doesn't matter as much as most people think.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

If you really need to know, you are bi. Because you pretty obviously like both genders physically and emotionally.

[Xxemoxxbladesxx]

Your still young and obviously developing
Your hormones are Crazy. You are probably bi-sexual
If you fantasize about men more tho than you may be more attracted to men over women
But as long as you like both than your bi
Even if you like one more than the other
I am pan-sexual and like all genders and what not although I see myself attracted more to men sometimes.