Keep or move on???

[dot6622]

OK so i was dating this guy since July of last year... i fell in love with him but we never got to see each other.... well I broke up with him because i thought he deserved better and was better off without me... I just want him to be happy... hes really cute and a really sweet guy.... but then there's me i'm not pretty and am just like nothing.... i thought i was doing the right thing but it hurts a lot.... what should i do should i get back with him or give him up for good and wait for the pain to go away:(

[ackmedsgirl666]

In my advice I think you should get over him
You said you want himto be happy so let him be happy
U guys could still be friends but things might end up the same as before if you guys were to get back together. So I think you should move on

[Lost in the Echo]

If you have these strong feelings for him, then you should get back together with him.

If you like him, then it's stupid to break up with him because "you're not good enough" or "he deserves better".
Why give him up if you really like him?

If you both truly do love each other, then get back together.

[FreeFall]

Your actions, they were incredibly selfish. You did the wrong thing.

Do you know if he was unhappy? Do you know if he was wanting to leave you? Did you ever even speak to him about this or did you think it all over by yourself?
Why did you get to decide what's good for him and what isn't?
Why did you get to decide that you weren't "worthy" of him?
How come you never let him think about this on his own. What in the world made you feel like you had the right to decide for him?
Had you said "I deserve better" "I wanted to be happy and I wasn't" then you'd be in the right, but you decided to make decisions for another person who had equal say in his happiness.

Speak to him again. If he wants to resume the relationship, speak it over. If he doesn't, then bow out knowing that this time, it was his choice and not your own actions.

[brianabyington]

I agree with the above poster too.

[Character Shows]

Okay... You people that commented... You have NO RIGHT What so ever to say that nonsense to her! She just so happens to be one of my best friends! So back off! Take it easy with her! She is amazing and she only wants the best for everyone!! Alright?!?! Don't be so mean alright!!! She is so freaking awesome and she wants everyone to be happy! DON'T say her actions are incredibly selfish! So Don't be harsh alright!

[dot6622]

Okay... You people that commented... You have NO RIGHT What so ever to say that nonsense to her! She just so happens to be one of my best friends! So back off! Take it easy with her! She is amazing and she only wants the best for everyone!! Alright?!?! Don't be so mean alright!!! She is so freaking awesome and she wants everyone to be happy! DON'T say her actions are incredibly selfish! So Don't be harsh alright!
You know what i cant ask you when seeing your face but i want to know what you think i should do.... i really trust your opinion.... so throw at me what your advice is

[Character Shows]

My advice.. Is leave him be.. If you think he can do better let him "do better"

[FreeFall]

Okay... You people that commented... You have NO RIGHT What so ever to say that nonsense to her! She just so happens to be one of my best friends! So back off! Take it easy with her! She is amazing and she only wants the best for everyone!! Alright?!?! Don't be so mean alright!!! She is so freaking awesome and she wants everyone to be happy! DON'T say her actions are incredibly selfish! So Don't be harsh alright!
Oh wow. A credible friend.

It wasn't mean. It was the blunt truth.

You also, on a public forum, do not get to dictate how advice is given, more so that you're not even the OP.
Even if you don't like said advice.

[Character Shows]

Oh wow. A credible friend.

It wasn't mean. It was the blunt truth.

You also, on a public forum, do not get to dictate how advice is given, more so that you're not even the OP.
Even if you don't like said advice.

Uhm... Sorry to bust your bubble. But she didnt like how you guys said you thought she was "Unworthy" or She was plain "Selfish" She isn't selfish.. and she isnt "Unworthy"!

[Character Shows]

Oh wow. A credible friend.

It wasn't mean. It was the blunt truth.

You also, on a public forum, do not get to dictate how advice is given, more so that you're not even the OP.
Even if you don't like said advice.

She had something but he would never come around! So it wasn't just for her! So until you know her story don't say she is "Unworthy" or "selfish"



Thanks:mad:

[Character Shows]

You know what i cant ask you when seeing your face but i want to know what you think i should do.... i really trust your opinion.... so throw at me what your advice is

Okay there is more to what I said before... But I didn't get to finish... But I want you to just not bother it... I don't like saying this really.. But I think you should move on... You can do it.. It's alright. But what you had with himm.. Was kind of an empty system.. that seemed to be going in circles and making it no where... but as long as you are with him you will be sad.. because you can't explore with someone stuck on you like that... He is just a weight that you should cut from yourself.. Thats kinda what I had to do with my last... But if you want him to be happy.. Let him go... Its not worth it if your going to sit there and think he doesn't have enough...

That's my advice to you.



Thanks.
Yours Truly,


Bestie ^_^