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Arther443
January 20th, 2013, 10:40 PM
--Please be completely honest--
So, I have this thing. It's my hands. I only have four fingers, missing the middle finger on each hand. Both hands look completely different but they both sort of look like alien hands. Would this be a turn off for any of you? On the contrary, would it be a turn on for any of you?
tundravortex
January 20th, 2013, 11:24 PM
well to the people that think there "all that" than yes but some people(like me)dont care as long there a nice person
disisfauslaut
January 21st, 2013, 07:39 AM
no there hands......
ackmedsgirl666
January 21st, 2013, 07:46 AM
i wouldnt care.
my boyfriend has a birth defect but idc
im still with him and love him.
Mortal Coil
January 21st, 2013, 08:11 AM
The only thing I would feel is a bit sorry that you can't flip people off. It's not a turn-off for me though.
Lunar
January 21st, 2013, 10:58 AM
I don't see the big deal, missing fingers don't usually change someone's personality. Not a turn-off at all.
Theslayer227
January 22nd, 2013, 05:22 AM
For me, being turned on or off is dependent on the person, not the minor features. I wouldn't be turned off by it. It honestly wouldn't bother me.
LolaHaze
January 22nd, 2013, 06:42 AM
The only thing I would feel is a bit sorry that you can't flip people off. It's not a turn-off for me though.

Brilliant!

Sums it up exactly.
Jacqui_11696
January 22nd, 2013, 11:10 AM
I look for personality. This would not be a turn off at all. However, insecurity having to do with it is. Embrace it! It's a part of you- take it and run and enjoy life!
Troy35216
January 22nd, 2013, 07:12 PM
there was a guy in my class last year who only had one arm and i swear i didn't even notice till the 3rd week of school. then i felt kind of dumb. any way i don't see how a missing finger would make a difference
Josie95
January 23rd, 2013, 03:12 AM
People tend to fallow someone's lead. If you are uncomfortable with yourself it will make others feel uncomfortable. If you are comfortable in your own skin it will make others feel at ease around you. Embrace what makes you different. It's part of what makes you uniquely you. You don't have to look like Brad Pitt for women to love you. If you are cool with yourself and cool to be around then women will want to be around you.