sex

[VeinceMan]

i cannot stop thinking about sex, and its starting to hurt physically! just seeing a girl i like, i start thinging really perverted thoughts, but i dont want to be a pervert! i know i can just masturbate, but is there anything else i can do?

[RaisingSand]

It's completely normal to feel this way about sex at this stage in your life, it's just your hormones being a real bitch.
Having these thoughts about girls and wanting to have sex with them is normal and not all that perverted. If you don't have a girlfriend and aren't in a committed relationship we're you are both ready to try things sexually, masturbating is a good option. If that's still not good enough, looking at porn in (but be really discreet about it) is alright too.

[Gumleaf]

try and find other interests or hobbies and try to forget about them. thats about all you can do. when hormones are raging in puberty its common to have these soughts of thoughts and feelings. just as long as you can control yourself, your ok.

[RaisingSand]

^Yeah, that too. ^^;; My bad. You could try exercising, playing sport, something physical that takes concentration and wears you out a bit, it will probably take your mind off it.

[VeinceMan]

i understand, but lately, ive just been tired of waiting, like, ive been trying to get caught doing things at school, and then i feel retarded.

[Some Guy]

I am the same way. I hate being like that. I have a lot of sick thought and get really bad thoughts when I see a girl. But I do not try to get caught doing things.

[Gumleaf]

these feelings are normal as i already said in a post above. but whatever you do, DON'T act on them. that would get you in huge trouble.

[Attax]

i agree with trigger... that would get u in a lot of trouble if u jumped on a girl at school, ripped her clothes off, and had ur way with her right then and there. It is perfectly normal to think this way... and dude don't look at porn because unless u are 18 or older... if u live in the US it is going to be illegal and you can get i lots of trouble for that too!

[byee]

If you 'did things at school and got caught' you'd feel alot more than 'retarded'!

There's the direct way of dealing with sexual urges, as in masturbation, or in your case, masturbation with incredibly vivid fantasies and lots of elbow grease, and the indirect way, using some self control, not allowing yourself to indulge in thoughts and fantasies in places like school, etc., and the 'channelling' method, like playing sports or other physical activites, maybe intellectual pursuits like reading, etc., or maybe even a combo of all three, making sure that you're alloting enough time to all three, and planning in advance when you'll be doing them. That might help you handle the urges better if you've got a plan to relieve them.