Is this normal?

[ToxicRalphyy]

I was having a sleepover at my friends house (he's 14 and I'm 13) he fell asleep and I went up to him and kissed him. I'm straight but I really wanted to try something. I even saw his penis. Is this wrong? Idk because he was sleeping.

[Lost in the Echo]

No, honestly that's not normal at all. I also recommend you don't do that to somebody when they're asleep, because that's borderline rape, as they cannot give consent to it.

If you do anything like that with him, it should be when you both are able to give consent to it, not when one of you are asleep.
Doing something like this to another person, while they're asleep is wrong.

[Aussieboy1]

Well you probably shouldn't kiss him or look at him naked without him knowing about it.

[SirMazing]

Sounds kinda hot or like something I would do. But you should tell him and ask him if its ok to see each other naked, you both have to be ok with it

[Human Male]

No, that's not okay at all. It was a monolithic invasion of privacy and non-consensual.

Also, imagine if he would have woken up during the process. He'd have told everyone.

[unusedaccount]

I was having a sleepover at my friends house (he's 14 and I'm 13) he fell asleep and I went up to him and kissed him. I'm straight but I really wanted to try something. I even saw his penis. Is this wrong? Idk because he was sleeping.

It's wrong if you touched him inappropriately. Kissing him while he's asleep, is borderline... But nothing serious, he would probably freak a little if he woke up and didn't like it. If you want to as you say 'try something', then speak to him, strike up a conversation about whatever, and see where it leads.

[deadliest mist 1]

no not normal

[alexkun]

i think its normal to try new things.. but it wasnt right the way you did it... you should at least ask him for permission.. dont tell him you did it.. just dont do it again, unless you ask first and he's awake :)

[ToxicRalphyy]

Ok ok, thank you guys. I asked him if he ever minded me kissing him because we're friends and he said he's more than willing. And about his penis...I'll mention that later...baby steps.

[Demonic186]

As others have said, not normal and as he had no say in what you were doing it's a little bit invasive - the kiss I can understand and is "somewhat" normal if it's just like a goodnight peck or something or other but taking a look at his penis is taking it too far!

As you said, just take baby steps and remember honesty is always best, and don't get disheartened or upset if he shoves you away or gets really angry/upset with you for what you've done. Take it with a pinch of salt and give him time :)

[Scottydog]

Sounds like something I'd do tbh...

[teen.jpg]

No dude ... that's just wrong ...

[dusman77]

Very wrong, I'm sorry. He should've been awake. Doing that while he was asleep is a bit creepy.

[Human Male]

Sounds like something I'd do tbh...



remind me never to sleep at your house

[Scottydog]

remind me never to sleep at your house

Thankfully...

[pmm98]

Well, I can't say It's normal. There are people that do that of course. One thing I have to say though, is you claim to be straight but you went and kissed your friend that's a guy? Straight guys watching gay porn or something like that is normal, because porn has no correlation to your sexuality, but if you are kissing guys and you don't have any interest in woman than you most likely are not straight.

Also, as others mentioned, you shouldn't kiss anybody while they're sleeping and unable to consent to it. Your friend might not want to do something as you did, so not only is it disrespectful to that other person, it's wrong. Keep that in mind.

[ToxicRalphyy]

Well, I can't say It's normal. There are people that do that of course. One thing I have to say though, is you claim to be straight but you went and kissed your friend that's a guy? Straight guys watching gay porn or something like that is normal, because porn has no correlation to your sexuality, but if you are kissing guys and you don't have any interest in woman than you most likely are not straight.

Also, as others mentioned, you shouldn't kiss anybody while they're sleeping and unable to consent to it. Your friend might not want to do something as you did, so not only is it disrespectful to that other person, it's wrong. Keep that in mind.

I never said I didn't like girls. And I wanted to kiss him just to make sure. Yes I understand he should of been awake. Bit I told him about it and he is fine with it.

[dontfiguremeout]

I never said I didn't like girls. And I wanted to kiss him just to make sure. Yes I understand he should of been awake. Bit I told him about it and he is fine with it.

Next time you should think before you do! Because the next guy could get angry at you for invading his privacy while he was sleeping and it could be an ugly fight!

[Michigan48111]

I don't know if I would call it normal, but I know you are not the first and won't be the last that has done that. Be careful if you try again that he doesn't wake up in case he gets mad.

[PrimedPenguin]

I agree with everyone above, its a normal thing to be curious but doing things while he is asleep is not right. if you want to try things perhaps try bringing it up in a conversation.

[aldabanana]

You shouldve just asked him or brought it up and done that consciously. I mean what's done is done and all you can do is just hope that this won't ruin things between you two.

[Hottie202]

not right yo

[BakeBake]

No it is not weird, I mean you guys are probably best friends and stuff, so as long as you two are cool with what you are doing together than that is all that matters, just try and do stuff while he is awake... He may not like you doing that to him.

[FizZ]

youre just curious..

[randomme]

Youre curious but i wouldnt do it in case you get caught

[luccatural]

You're curious, just hormones

[Evancosta]

You shouldn't do anything like that. It's not fair to your friend. I understand that you are curious, but that was not the right setting.

[xXl0sth0peXx]

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