Could i be steril?

[hello111]

Funny story... I was climbing a fence and fell when one of my legs was on the otherside and hurt my balls. they are slightly swollen now. Is there a possibility that I am steril?

[Aηdy]

Go to the doctor, we aren't doctors and we can't examine you.

[Hauptmann Kauffman]

I doubt it, in fact, I highly doubt it. Wait a little while, and if it gets worse see a doctor

[hello111]

I doubt it, in fact, I highly doubt it. Wait a little while, and if it gets worse see a doctor

k thx. I hate doctors o.O and i seem to ejaculate the same amount as i did before i fell

[Aηdy]

With any injury in that area it's always best to have it checked. You could regret it in the future if you don't.

[hello111]

Wasnt really an injury. Im feeling fine now. Didnt interfere with me execising either

[Aηdy]

Well, it's your choice.

[hello111]

mabey i will go to the doctor then... I dont think i can make an appointment at my age tho..

[Aηdy]

All I'm saying is it's worth going down just to get checked out, it could save a hell of a lot of hassle in the future.

[hello111]

Am I able to make a doctors appointment at 13?

[Aηdy]

I can't see why not. If not get your parents to do it, I know it's embaracing but it could be worth it if there is anything wrong.

[Maverick]

I dont think i can make an appointment at my age tho..
Don't you have parents? Tell them, they are there to help. No need to be embarrassed.

You should go to the doctor ASAP. There could be permanent damage. The likelyhood is low but you never know. Go to the doctor for peace of mind and get examined.

[Underground_Network]

^^Exactly.. Go to the doctor, trust me when I say, you may think there is nothing wrong, but there could be something seriously wrong down there. I'm not saying that I believe something seriously harmful happened to you, I'm just saying its better to get it checked out than not. I do not believe you can go to the doctor without your parent's permission (at least not a pediatrician at age 13), but your parents are there to help as Anthony said. Talk to who ever you feel comfortable around talking about that stuff. Whenever you have your next physical exam they're going to probably check down there anyway.

[byee]

Ya know, those testicles aren't as delicate as we think. Based on how much they hurt over the simpliest insults, you'd think we're carrying around a couple of cracked eggs there. But we're not. They're sensitive, but tough.

In order to be sterile (infertile) you'd have to bust them up very badly, really destroy them. This you would know, it would probably leave you unconscious. Bangs and bruises feel dreadful (more dreadful then they really are), so unless you saw stars (and a few departed relatives), you're likely ok.

Just take care next time, they are exposed, and as we all know, veeeery sensitive.

[hello111]

Don't you have parents? Tell them, they are there to help. No need to be embarrassed.

You should go to the doctor ASAP. There could be permanent damage. The likelyhood is low but you never know. Go to the doctor for peace of mind and get examined.

I dont trust my parents so ill try to book my own appointment

Ya know, those testicles aren't as delicate as we think. Based on how much they hurt over the simpliest insults, you'd think we're carrying around a couple of cracked eggs there. But we're not. They're sensitive, but tough.

In order to be sterile (infertile) you'd have to bust them up very badly, really destroy them. This you would know, it would probably leave you unconscious. Bangs and bruises feel dreadful (more dreadful then they really are), so unless you saw stars (and a few departed relatives), you're likely ok.

Just take care next time, they are exposed, and as we all know, veeeery sensitive.

Yeah i guess i let my guard down. I had been climbing the fence every day for 3 years

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[Maverick]

I dont trust my parents so ill try to book my own appointment
You can't book your own appointment. You're a minor. You probably don't even have your health insurance information.

Why don't you trust your parents?

[hello111]

You can't book your own appointment. You're a minor. You probably don't even have your health insurance information.

Why don't you trust your parents?

Past experiences.

[Maverick]

It's just going to the doctor. Just tell them how you told us. It seriously isn't the end of the world. What happened that makes you not trust them?

[hello111]

basically the fact is that when i tell my dad something he tells my mum, my mum talks to her freinds about me too even when i ask her not to. I would probobly trust my doctor more because he deals with many people and it is his job to be discreet

[Maverick]

basically the fact is that when i tell my dad something he tells my mum, my mum talks to her freinds about me too even when i ask her not to. I would probobly trust my doctor more because he deals with many people and it is his job to be discreet
Yeah, but he has to tell your parents. I think you should still tell your parents but when you tell them, say "I'd appreciate it if you didn't tell anyone. This is something personal for me. I almost considered not telling you because you tell people personal things about me and I don't like it."

Be direct. In order to solve the problem, it needs to be addressed. I think your parents will reconsider their behavior if they find out that that their son doubted your trust between them.

[hello111]

Im going to have to do it tommorow. My mum has one of her friends in.

[Maverick]

OK good luck.

[hello111]

thanks for the help. Im feeling like im gonna puke now, goodbye

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Honestly, it is a good idea to go to the doctor, but if you don't even feel pain anymore (and the swelling is gone) AND you ejaculate normally (i.e. no blood in your semen) I honestly don't think you need to go to the doctor. I KNOW it's important, but I think in some cases this gets blown out of proportion. I mean, I hurt my balls too one time and they hurt for several days. After that, the pain went away and I've suffered absolutely no ill effects (this happened months ago). So really I think that if the pain doesn't return you should be fine.

Simply: ya just hurt you're balls man!

I mean, if you're fine I don't think you should have to go through SO much mental anguish over it (judging by your last post) don't worry about it man!

AND for the record I KNOW going to the doctor is a good decision! :D

[byee]

Don't puke, you've had enough trouble today!

I think the idea of addressing the issue of not being able to trust your folks is a really good one, regardless of your current testicular discomfort.

Maybe you can come up with a way of telling them how you feel about some of the things they're doing, make sure you're not trying to pick a fight. Consider the possibility that they're not aware how offensive/embarassing it is to you, and that when they find out, they might modify their behavior. Most parents don't intentionally do things that cause emotional discomfort to their kids. Maybe they're just unaware, as hard as that might be to accept.

And besides, at some point you might really need them to do something for you, and at that time, it would be so much better if you could trust them to respond correctly and count on their support

[hello111]

I told my mum and i got he usual exhale that shows she is annoyed.

Now she says she cant make a doctors appointment till monday and i should show my dad. I dont want to. She gives me annoying solutions. Then she started talking to me about it infront of my sister. Now im really depressed along with the pain...

[TheDude]

I told my mum and i got he usual exhale that shows she is annoyed.

Now she says she cant make a doctors appointment till monday and i should show my dad. I dont want to. She gives me annoying solutions. Then she started talking to me about it infront of my sister. Now im really depressed along with the pain...

No offense, but I really don't like the sound of your mum.

[Maverick]

Ok just relax. Just remind her on Monday to make the appointment and all will be well. This will be all over soon.

[hello111]

Ok just relax. Just remind her on Monday to make the appointment and all will be well. This will be all over soon.


thanks
Edit: I told my dad and he said I will wait and see if its still sore on monday and if they are he will take me to the doctors. Turns out he had something like that too.

[Maverick]

thanks
Edit: I told my dad and he said I will wait and see if its still sore on monday and if they are he will take me to the doctors. Turns out he had something like that too.
Cool. See telling your parents isn't that bad.

[hello111]

I've been told that im not going to the doctors because the pain has gone and so has the swelling

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Well I didn't think you needed to in the first place so... yeah....

I didn't even think about going to the doctors when I had my problem... it just went away and hasn't bothered me since. Sometimes you can get pretty worried tho... :(