i need a guy's advice

[emeraldangel946]

:confused:ok i'm thinking about going all the way with my boyfriend
we've gotten really close and i was just wondering
how do i know if he enjoys what i am doing?
and what do i do?
i'm like totally clueless from where to put my hands to what do i do and ugh
please help!

and no oral sex.:confused:

[Aηdy]

How old are you?

[emeraldangel946]

i'm 16 if you saw another saying i'm 13. lol that's my cuzin we're sharing the account. i should probably make my own.... but please answer me

[Aηdy]

Yeah it's best not to share accounts to avoind confusion.

Well the best way to find out is ask him, he'll know what he likes as everyone is different! And tell ask him if he's enjoying it! Communication is key!

[byee]

Is it okay to get advice sexual advice here, as in technique? Shouldn't this be locked?

[Maverick]

Boys Puberty :arrow: General Puberty

Andy is right. We aren't mind readers. You have to ask him what he likes and if he likes what you're doing. Every guy is different.

edit: Sam this is fine... Andy would have locked it if it needed to. She isn't even asking for techniques. She's asking how to communicate with her boyfriend.

[Aηdy]

IAMSAM why don't you just leave the moderating to the mods ok?

If a member of staff has replied to a post then it doesn't need any input like that.

[emeraldangel946]

but like i can't just be like
ok i wanna have sex with you
how would you like it
lol
idk it would be wierd

[Maverick]

but like i can't just be like
ok i wanna have sex with you
how would you like it
lol
idk it would be wierd
A major part of sex is communication. If you can't get over that then it's safe to say you aren't mature and ready for any kind of sex then.

[emeraldangel946]

yeah i guess
i'll wait
thanks!

[Maverick]

yeah i guess
i'll wait
thanks!
No problem. I know it may seem weird now but it won't be a big deal when you're someone you completely trust very much.

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Exactly, when you're with someone that you're very comfortable with, it can actually be fun and interesting talking about it (rather than feeling uncomfortable).

[ctw4451]

I think Anthony and ThatCanadianGuy are legit. Have sex when you're ready, emotionally and physically. If you decide to have sex before you're ready - it could affect your decisions when you're older!

[Attax]

one way to tell is that if during sex his breathing patterns change or his toes curl is a sign because pleasure causes breath change and muscle tensions

[RaisingSand]

I agree with Anthony. You shouldn't be engaging in sexual activity with your boyfriend yet if you aren't at a stage where there is complete trust and no communication barrier. You in yourself need to be emotionally mature and secure enough in yourself before you even consider having sex.
And when you do, you need to be sure you have the right proctection (best method is female oral contraceptives, or "the pill", combined with condoms).

[Wow.Za.]

A major part of sex is communication. If you can't get over that then it's safe to say you aren't mature and ready for any kind of sex then.


Yea, i agree with Anthony. You may be too young to be having sex..:confused:
Unless you really want a baby...I mean..:yes:

[Actor]

i agree with all these people there is someone at my school that every one talkes about behind her back because she is pregnant and she wonderes why. just whait until you are at least out of high school when you are more mature.