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Kakakatie
January 18th, 2013, 08:58 AM
Hey :)
My older brother found out my friend has a crush on him an he's walking around in his swim trunks or very see through undies after swim practice Infront of me an her, he's even leaving the door a little open when he showers an now my 10 year old brother is copying him
WHAT SHOULD I DO

ackmedsgirl666
January 18th, 2013, 09:36 AM
talk to your parents and inform them on what hes doing
also try and talk to him... tell him that for whatever reason what he is doing is inappropriate and your little brother is copying him... or make up a lie and tell your brother your friend has found a boyfriend and she doesnt like him that way.. also whats the age difference because if its a big difference then that will most definately cause problems

rakster
January 18th, 2013, 09:53 AM
I don't have a brother, but I think if he wants to act like that there's not much you can do. Is he trying to turn her on? I think that would be kinda gross myself. Does ur friend notice? What does she think? And what's up with your little bro anyway? Why would he copy his big bro like that?

ackmedsgirl666
January 18th, 2013, 09:55 AM
most little siblings copy whatever they see their rolemodels doing
in this case her little brother looks up to her bog brother and him copying is... because his older brother he thinks its cool.. as hes young and still learning... you should definately have a talk with your older brother about this is setting a bad example for your little brother

Mortal Coil
January 18th, 2013, 10:23 AM
Tell your older brother that what he's doing is affecting your little brother. Ask him to stop and if he doesn't, then first try to stop your little brother, and then tell a higher authority. This is not okay and is obviously uncomfortable for all parties. Sorry you're stuck in this mess :/

ackmedsgirl666
January 18th, 2013, 10:25 AM
your brother is being immature and seeking attention in a negative way

Jacqui_11696
January 20th, 2013, 07:39 AM
Your brother is really immature. Tell him to grow up and that doing what he is doing is no way to receive positive attention from a girl!

amylights
January 20th, 2013, 06:57 PM
Your brother is really immature. Tell him to grow up and that doing what he is doing is no way to receive positive attention from a girl!
My thoughts exactly!

Kakakatie
January 25th, 2013, 09:30 AM
I don't have a brother, but I think if he wants to act like that there's not much you can do. Is he trying to turn her on? I think that would be kinda gross myself. Does ur friend notice? What does she think? And what's up with your little bro anyway? Why would he copy his big bro like that?

Yeah she notices him a lot cause he showers an changes with the doors wide open :/ an my little brother like idolizes him an sees him naked an well yeah copies

Cece14
January 25th, 2013, 12:08 PM
Tell your brother to , knock it off!

collrue
January 25th, 2013, 12:54 PM
It's your friend, you need to set the ground rules and the like

rakster
January 25th, 2013, 01:34 PM
So does ur friend even think ur bro is sexy or anything? That seems pretty bold instead of just talking to her or asking her out.

LilKelli69
February 28th, 2013, 11:22 PM
I think your brother just needs to sit down and have a talk with your friend. Get the parents involved too.