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lukene
January 18th, 2013, 07:26 AM
Okay this may seem more suited to Teen Sexuality... but just hold on for a second... i always see guys on here saying "I'm straight but I am curious about guys, is it hormones"... well my question is the exact same but swap straight with gay or bi (what ever you decise after you finished reading this) and guys with girls.
I know i am attracted to guys emotionally and sexually but i also over the past year or maybe a bit more have began to get turned on by naked girls and what not. I always get crushes on girls but can't imagine having sex with them unless they are like someone i don't know.
Is it hormones or am i bi or etc. etc.

alex99Ro
January 18th, 2013, 09:40 AM
First of all.This is because of hormones and curiosity.If you don't have sentiments for girls,you might be gay.BUT I think even at 15 years old you are too young to know what sexuality you have.I liked a girl in the 5th and 6th grade and one now,in the 8th grade.I like to see girls nude and in porn.But I like guys too.So I don't really know yet what I am.I like guys,but I am not emotionnaly attracted to them.

dontfiguremeout
January 18th, 2013, 10:49 AM
Puberty 101 Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality. You'll get much better answers here since your thread was about your sexuality, and not so much puberty.

ackmedsgirl666
January 18th, 2013, 10:56 AM
well this is a tough choice... you stated your sexually and emotionally attracted to men but you have crushes sometimes on girls.. well in my opinion i dont see it as anything to worry about.,,, if you still think your gay then stick with that... it just might be that you have thoughts about girls... but you probably last minute would change your mind.. dont let it bother you.. hormones rage and we make strange choices in life.. but all i can say is whatever floats your boat go for it.... if you like men..... then go for it.... if you want to consider something with a female go for that... but just think deep down inside on what you would truly want... not a spur of a moment thought because one action can change your life forever

RoseyCadaver
January 19th, 2013, 01:13 AM
It a heteronormative society, being bi-curious is usually seen as a heterosexual person who does have feelings or a sexual attraction to the same sex. However, this is not to say a gay man can't be bi-currious for a woman.
Wanting to have an emotional or platonic relationship with a woman is perfectly normal. In fact, I sort've consider myself homosexual but heteroromantic since I tend to like sex with guys but relationships with women.
Sexuality IS a confusing thing, however it's up to you to decide what you are, and how you feel (:.

Lost in the Echo
January 19th, 2013, 01:17 AM
Well, how is this any different than when someone is straight and curious?
It's probably just your hormones doing this to you.

It's fine, and completely normal. :)
I think this is just a phase you'll grow out of.

Lovelife090994
January 20th, 2013, 11:48 PM
That's not curiosity it's sense. Males have a natural allure to females. Look at nature and how the body is anatomically.

janisj182
January 22nd, 2013, 06:53 PM
ur hormones are just outta wack

CharlieHorse
January 22nd, 2013, 06:56 PM
It's all hormones. Your attraction levels and intensity can vary a lot in your teen years, no matter your orientation.

janisj182
January 22nd, 2013, 06:57 PM
give it time