Sticky situation.

[Snowman12]

Hi, this is my first post here. I'm in a stick situation. I am a sporting shooter and this girl I've been shooting with for 2 years now, I really like is all I want in a girl. The only problem is a friend I took shooting once had end up in a relationship with her (it's my fault the love of my life is unavailable).:( I need help and advice.

[Gandalf]

Hi, this is my first post here. I'm in a stick situation. I am a sporting shooter and this girl I've been shooting with for 2 years now, I really like is all I want in a girl. The only problem is a friend I took shooting once had end up in a relationship with her (it's my fault the love of my life is unavailable).:( I need help and advice.

Well if you are both single you could perhaps build the friendship again (being careful not to become "friendzoned"

Then you'd just have to be open and honest about your feelings, she might not feel the same way so I'd recommend just being diplomatic and sensitive.

Hope I've helped :)

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, there isn't really anything you can do, since she's in a relationship with someone else.

Most relationships at your age don't last long anyways, so you should have a second chance.
But, if her and him remain together, there isn't anything you can do about it.
Like I said though, it's highly likely the relationship between them won't last long.
So be optimistic. You might have another chance with her.

[Snowman12]

I talk to her all the time, I might already be friend zoned. I know why's friend likes her, all he likes are her looks. Her and I have so much in common, but yeah... I don't know.

[Lost in the Echo]

I talk to her all the time, I might already be friend zoned. I know why's friend likes her, all he likes are her looks. Her and I have so much in common, but yeah... I don't know.

Yeah, dude, that sucks. Too bad she doesn't see it that way.
Like I said though, that relationship most likely won't last. Especially because he only likes her for her looks.

If they do eventually break up ( which is likely ) then you'll have your chance to be with her.
If she rejects you though, then you have to accept that. You can't force someone to be in a relationship with you.

I wish you luck though!:)

[Snowman12]

How long should I wait after they break up?

[Lost in the Echo]

How long should I wait after they break up?

*If :P
This isn't really a sure thing ( although the chances are probably great ).

If they do though, then ask her out whenever you feel most comfortable doing it.
It would be wise not to wait long, but do it when you think the time is right.

[Taryn98]

Take your time, and just be her friend. Don't have an ulterior motive right now. If things don't work out between her and your friend, then be there for her and make sure she's ok. Then you can make a move. In the time being just get to know her well, and make sure she see's what a good person you are. It will help your case later.
If they don't break up, at least you'll have a great friend.

[Snowman12]

I've been talking to her the last few days and seen her a few times, and I've relised she is a good friend and I don't want to change that. In fact I would now consider her as one if my best friends. Relationships don't last forever, friendships do.