How can I get her back?

[Sciguy]

My girlfriend and I broke up early this school year and we are really good friends now but I want her back. I told her this and she said that things might go bad again because I actually dated one of her friends and they aren't freinds anymore (they weren't very good friends to begin with). She's afraid something like that will happen again. I was just wondering if anyone had any tips to get her back?

[ackmedsgirl666]

well judging by what you just asked your being selfish and only thinking of yourself
she has told you she doesnt want to be more than friends and that it wont work.... you obviously need to earn her trust back before she considers it but at this point she doesnt sound like giving you another chance and you should respect that and leave her be... maybe in time things will be different but for now i would stop asking her... or even thinking about it because it will only push her away

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, there's not much more you can do.
It sounds like she still has feelings for you, but is just afraid of something bad happening, if you guys get back together.

Just continue to let her know how much she means to you, and continue to be friends with her, have hope that a relationship develops between you two.
If it doesn't, then you'll just have to move on.

[FreeFall]

Why are you dismissing her concerns? So what if they weren't very good friends? maybe in her mind they were, maybe the pain she felt was real, why are you just saying "oh not a big deal not like you two were best friends" when it's real enough for her to bring up?

Also, why? Why do you want her back? What's changed in both of you since you last dated? What problems were there? Did you ignore them, fix them, work on them? What makes you think this time around will be better than the last?