Masturbating with Brother-in-Law

[danny_13]

Recently my brother-in-law keeps masturbating in front of me a couple of times and each time i see him he invites me and so i masturbate too. Is this normal or ok to do? I'm 13 and he's 24. Also everytime i have a sleepover at his apartment he changes clothes in front of me which brings me the attencion to stare at his underwear. Specially where his penis is. Is that also normal? I'm straight im not interested in guys!

[Troy35216]

too big an age difference

[SirMazing]

Im sorry but I find that a little creepy because of 1 age 2 family (unless they're cousins or siblings your age and sex)

[danny_13]

I dont mind masturbating with him. I just wanted to know if it was normal and if there where similar cases like mine. But i dont know why i just feel like staring at his underwear!! That happend way before he invited to masturbate

[Kyyle]

no offense but that's fucked up. it's not normal for a grown up to be jacking off with someone our age. he can go to jail for that. he's not some kid you go to school with he's married and 11 years older than you. ask your sister if she thinks its normal that her husband jacks off with her brother. jesus christ.

[SirMazing]

no offense but that's fucked up. it's not normal for a grown up to be jacking off with someone our age. he can go to jail for that. he's not some kid you go to school with he's married and 9 years older than you. ask your sister if she thinks its normal that her husband jacks off with her brother. jesus christ.

I'm sorry, I really wanted to say that^^^^^ But I didn't wnt to be the person who says it first ;p and btw its 11 not 9 years

[Kyyle]

I'm sorry, I really wanted to say that^^^^^ But I didn't wnt to be the person who says it first ;p and btw its 11 not 9 years

haha i suck at math. i will edit it to change it. 11 is even worse. that's just crazy

[Human Male]

I can think of few countries where that isn't entirely illegal, against social norms, and highly frowned upon.

Keep your dick in your pants this time, kid.

[ackmedslayer556]

that can cause serious problems considering his age gap and yours
i wouldnt continue to allow this to happen... seeing as it is illegal
next time he tries to masturbate with you or you see him naked explain to him that hes making you feel uncomfortable and if she doesnt listen stop hanging around him and tlak to your other family members someone you trust.... this is an inappropriate relationship

[Human Male]

next time he tries to masturbate with you or you see him naked explain to him that hes making you feel uncomfortable


no no no no

assuming this is true (it isn't), call the cops on the sick fuck. who knows how much younger of kids he's hypothetically masturbating in front of, or tempted to abuse.

[ackmedslayer556]

yeah i guess u got a point there
sorry.. i just was suggesting he do it the safe way..... seeing as if he allerted the police infront of this guy..... who know what kinds of dangers he could get himself into.

[VirtualGuy012]

I think the age difference is kind of creepy. I wouldn't do it personally. but i guess its up to you

[Scrange]

The age difference is too much. Don't get me wrong me and my half brother would "explore" but I was 13 he was 15 both old enough to kinda enjoy it. Tell him to stop it makes you uncomfortable if he doesn't tell your parents. They should handle it.

[Kyyle]

no no no no

assuming this is true (it isn't), call the cops on the sick fuck. who knows how much younger of kids he's hypothetically masturbating in front of, or tempted to abuse.

I agree. i don't even think it's true and I don't care if i get negative reps for saying it. and if it is true the brother in law is a perv criminal and if i knew where exactly in riverside california they were at i'd call the cops myself.

[SirMazing]

haha i suck at math. i will edit it to change it. 11 is even worse. that's just crazy

I mean I might be wrong since I suck at arithmatic math ;p BUT either way its pretty bad

[staples]

it would be ok if the age differents was less

[john jojo]

you got gay mens sydrom u might become bi

[unusedaccount]

Recently my brother-in-law keeps masturbating in front of me a couple of times and each time i see him he invites me and so i masturbate too. Is this normal or ok to do? I'm 13 and he's 24. Also everytime i have a sleepover at his apartment he changes clothes in front of me which brings me the attencion to stare at his underwear. Specially where his penis is. Is that also normal? I'm straight im not interested in guys!

If you are comfortable with it, then its fine.

[Human Male]

If you are comfortable with it, then its fine.

Dude, no.

It's statutory rape, incest, and creepy all rolled into one.

[unusedaccount]

Dude, no.

It's statutory rape, incest, and creepy all rolled into one.

Um what? Is he touching the kid? No. Is he having sexual intercourse with him? No. So that rules rape, and incest out of the equation. Creepy? Eh... It's a relative term.

[unusedaccount]

Recently my brother-in-law keeps masturbating in front of me a couple of times and each time i see him he invites me and so i masturbate too. Is this normal or ok to do? I'm 13 and he's 24. Also everytime i have a sleepover at his apartment he changes clothes in front of me which brings me the attencion to stare at his underwear. Specially where his penis is. Is that also normal? I'm straight im not interested in guys!

Just to clarify Danny, if he touches you, or invites you to touch him, it goes from being acceptable, to crossing a very dangerous line... That; is wrong. But if you just jack off in the same room and stuff, that's fine. Again, as long as your comfortable with it.

[deadliest mist 1]

not cool just no

[Human Male]

Um what? Is he touching the kid? No. Is he having sexual intercourse with him? No. So that rules rape, and incest out of the equation. Creepy? Eh... It's a relative term.


Yes, because masturbating together and watching will most certainly not lead to anything else, nor does the brother in law have anything else in mind.

[unusedaccount]

Yes, because masturbating together and watching will most certainly not lead to anything else, nor does the brother in law have anything else in mind.

If the guy can respect the kids boundaries, then it isn't an issue. If he crosses the line, then it is... Some people can handle staying within acceptable limits, some can't. It's relative... You can't judge someone you don't even know. I'm not saying its acceptable, I'm saying that if the kids comfortable with it, and the guy he's doing it with is family, and able to respect boundaries, then its fine.

[Human Male]

If the guy can respect the kids boundaries, then it isn't an issue. If he crosses the line, then it is... Some people can handle staying within acceptable limits, some can't. Its relative... You can't judge someone you don't even know. I'm not saying its acceptable, I'm saying that if the kids comfortable with it, and the guy he's doing it with is family, and able to respect boundaries, then its fine.

He's a twenty four year old who spontaneously masturbates in front of his thirteen year old brother-in-law.

Do you think he's about respecting boundaries?

[unusedaccount]

He's a twenty four year old who spontaneously masturbates in front of his thirteen year old brother-in-law.

Do you think he's about respecting boundaries?

If the kids comfortable with it, then I don't see an immediate problem. If he doesn't like him doing it, then he should say so, or simply leave the room until he finishes. There's no need to judge someone you don't know and automatically assume the worst case scenario.

[unusedaccount]

no offense but that's fucked up. it's not normal for a grown up to be jacking off with someone our age. he can go to jail for that. he's not some kid you go to school with he's married and 11 years older than you. ask your sister if she thinks its normal that her husband jacks off with her brother. jesus christ.

Jail? Under what law? What the guy is doing is borderline, but not illegal. It's his apartment, and they are related... As long as it doesn't go any further than just jacking off in the same room, and the kids comfortable with doing it, then there isn't an issue. Anything beyond that, I agree, is unacceptable... But we can't judge the guy, we don't even know him. No need to jump to worst case 'what ifs'...

[Human Male]

If the kids comfortable with it, then I don't see an immediate problem. If he doesn't like him doing it, then he should say so, or simply leave the room until he finishes. There's no need to judge someone you don't know and automatically assume the worst case scenario.



Nice try, OP's brother in law.

[unusedaccount]

Nice try, OP's brother in law.

What do you mean? Yes, his brother in law, meaning they are related. Maybe not by blood, but legally they are related.

[unusedaccount]

He's a twenty four year old who spontaneously masturbates in front of his thirteen year old brother-in-law.

Do you think he's about respecting boundaries?

There's no point me trying to explain that we don't know the guy, and that we don't know if he has bad intentions. So i'll swallow my argument, and say point taken. Difference in age is too wide, and its inappropriate. If he does it again Danny, tell your parents.

[Human Male]

What do you mean? Yes, his brother in law, meaning they are related. Maybe not by blood, but legally they are related.

I'm making a joke, saying that you are, in fact, OP's brother in law, because of how hard you're trying to defend someone doing something so obviously wrong.

[unusedaccount]

I'm making a joke, saying that you are, in fact, OP's brother in law, because of how hard you're trying to defend someone doing something so obviously wrong.

I'm not defending. I'm saying he hasn't crossed a line yet. I don't judge people I don't know. I have said and advised him that if he wants his brother in law to stop, or if his brother in law crosses a line then he should tell someone. But please realize that the OP can't exactly go up to his parents and say he's being taken advantage of, without good reason. This could break up his family if it swung the wrong way... He needs to be smart about what he does in regards to the issue. He could politely ask his brother to stop, and be done with it, or tell his parents, and risk a inter-family war of kinds...

[Kyyle]

Jail? Under what law? What the guy is doing is borderline, but not illegal. It's his apartment, and they are related... As long as it doesn't go any further than just jacking off in the same room, and the kids comfortable with doing it, then there isn't an issue. Anything beyond that, I agree, is unacceptable... But we can't judge the guy, we don't even know him. No need to jump to worst case 'what ifs'...

"If the minor is less than 16 years old and the adult is more than 4 years older than the minor and the adult engages in behavior that is intended to satisfy the adult's sexual needs, a crime has been committed." if those kids with Jerry Sandusky wre comfortable doing it would that make what he did okay? but you are right we don't even know him which is why I suggested asking someone who DOES know him very well------his wife. Ask his wife what she thinks about her husband jacking off with her 13 year old brother. let her decide if it's normal or a crime. how can anyone NOT think this is fucked up???? he is 24 years and MARRIED. he has a wife! his days of "experimenting" are over if he has a wife that experiment is over by now. if the cops found me and a 15 year old jacking off together what would they do to us? now what would the cops do if they found a 24 year old man jacking off in front of a 13 year old and asking him to join in? jesus christ!

[unusedaccount]

"If the minor is less than 16 years old and the adult is more than 4 years older than the minor and the adult engages in behavior that is intended to satisfy the adult's sexual needs, a crime has been committed." if those kids with Jerry Sandusky wre comfortable doing it would that make what he did okay? but you are right we don't even know him which is why I suggested asking someone who DOES know him very well------his wife. Ask his wife what she thinks about her husband jacking off with her 13 year old brother. let her decide if it's normal or a crime. how can anyone NOT think this is fucked up???? he is 24 years and MARRIED. he has a wife! his days of "experimenting" are over if he has a wife that experiment is over by now. if the cops found me and a 15 year old jacking off together what would they do to us? now what would the cops do if they found a 24 year old man jacking off in front of a 13 year old and asking him to join in? jesus christ!

I agree with what your saying, but it isn't right to judge someone that we don't know. The OP needs to be smart about how he deals with this.

[CoDy_]

Well I can't say this is normal and not weird. Now if this guy was between ages 14 and 16, maybe 17 or 18, and was a cousin or brother, that would be fine I believe. But he is a brother-in-law, a man over the age of 18, an adult, 12 years older then you, and you are basically a child, that just seems wrong, and isn't an act that I believe you should be participating in.

[teen.jpg]

That's quite the age difference ...

[Michigan48111]

it's a little weird yes, but you haven't had physical contact, and families that go to nudist camps may have kids see some of the same stuff. I'd keep it to yourself, if you don't want to do it or it creeps you out, than tell him to stop. It also may just be you're curious and you'll grow out of wanting to see him naked and stuff shortly.

[Troy35216]

this just seems 100% wrong to me. idk what state the OP is in but the Alabama Criminal Code doesn't say anything about physical contact. it just says if an adult engages in sexual activity in the presence of a minor or entices the minor to engage in sexual activity the adult is guilty of sexual battery. just saying

[aldabanana]

Your brother-in-law isn't really being adult like. It's seems a bit off that he does stuff like that in front of you. Unless you guys are REALLY close, then just wary.

[Hottie202]

call the cops

[BakeBake]

I mean it is okay, but there is a great age difference between you two, and if he ever tries to do anything to you, like touch you, just tell him that you don't want him to do that because you don't want him to get in trouble... But as long as you two are cool with it, that doesn't matter.

[gamerdudeW]

yeah its normal to be curious about guys when ur a teenager. u never really see another one or if urs is even close to normal unless u get shown or look. its pretty normal for guys to change clothes around each other..thats how dressing rooms and lockerrooms are all around the world. so that sounds pretty normal to me. not sure bout the masturbation part tho. i guess since ur a teen its not as bad as u being like 8 or something tho lol

[GabAngel06]

I think it's not normal for you both to do that. It's somewhat incest, I guess, and you have a large gap when it comes to age. I hope you'll be careful. Next thing you know, you're getting raped by an extended family member.

[Lovelife090994]

If he is seeking mutual masturbation he needs to find someone his own age. It is wrong due to age difference! In five years when you're 18, no but now? Yes, illegal!! Be careful and get him to stop. He may be a pervert! Call the police he is breaking the law. If you were 16 or older and your brother-in-law within 4 years of your age, maybe... but anything else that is not you at or above 18, no! Illegal, call the police!

[dufus]

He's too old I think....

[justin 13]

its weird dude.

[Stuey1]

That is strange

[NomSan]

I find this extremely creepy.
The age difference is way too big, and you are in "family" as well.

It's not normal for a 24yo ma to jack off in front of his girlfriend's 13yo brother, jeez.

[Dcj2]

i did it with my friends older brother, so i dont see it that bad. unless hes touching you

[Helloworld29]

Recently my brother-in-law keeps masturbating in front of me a couple of times and each time i see him he invites me and so i masturbate too. Is this normal or ok to do? I'm 13 and he's 24. Also everytime i have a sleepover at his apartment he changes clothes in front of me which brings me the attencion to stare at his underwear. Specially where his penis is. Is that also normal? I'm straight im not interested in guys!

I think this is totally normal because you are just curios

[mrfrog871]

As your 13 I guess it's wrong I wank with my 26 year old brother but I'm 17 and kt only happens when we don't bring a girl home

[MatthewC]

totally wrong just no

[CoolKid97]

There's a large are difference so it's not acceptable. It could cause family turmoil and legal issues if you two or he were caught. Do what you feel is best but take in consideration all our thoughts.

[Jevon]

Well I'm just gonna say that's pretty fucking creepy considering the age difference but whatever floats your boat...or in this case whatever tickles your pickle lol

[kanine]

Honestly I do find it really creepy conssidering the age difference. but I have heard of father and son masturbations within the same age group. It would seem your brother in law has either an intrest in you or wants you two to be closer to where your comfortable talking about things. The crotch staring is perfectly natural, your just a little curious. Honestly you should probably stop.

[Harley Quinn]

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