What to do when girls flirt with you?

[Pierce]

I'm gay and closeted and in high school. I hate when girls flirt with me. There are currently two girls who flirt with me like every day. One today was playing footsie while staring at me ( I just pretended like I didn't feel it, moved my foot, and continued reading LOL) The other think she's cute cause she like to touch everyone and I HATE being touched by anyone. Is there any actual way to get them to stop. Over my years in high school when other girls have flirted with me id just ignore them and they would eventually stop but eventually is too far away. Also the footsie girl says stuff that creeps me out if I don't respond to her footsie attempts. Like I couldn't get your face out of my mind. (WHO THE FUCK SAYS THAT?) Okay sorry for this long paragraph but is there anyway to get them to stop without waiting it out? Please be realistic not like "just tell her that you are not interested" because if you say something like that around where I am you get made fun of or called gay (Not in a serious way but I just don't want to hear it) Thanks for reading this much and thanks for your feedback!

[CharlieHorse]

Gosh idk what to say. No girl has ever flirted with me before... :(
I'd just ask her to stop, and you're not interested. If you say it nicely, she shouldn't take it offensively.

[Abyssal Echo]

flirt back (a little reverse psycology) to see how they like it. ignore their advances, ask them to stop, or just tell them you're not interested.

[Lost in the Echo]

Not the answer you wanted to hear, but I think the best thing to do is tell her to leave you the fuck alone. If anybody makes fun of you, or calls you gay, it just shows how fucking ignorant they are. If anyone insults you, be the bigger man, and walk away and ignore them.

Don't let anybody offend you. Tell this girl you don't like it when she flirts with you, and tell her to stop.

[Pierce]

Gosh idk what to say. No girl has ever flirted with me before... :(
I'd just ask her to stop, and you're not interested. If you say it nicely, she shouldn't take it offensively.

Thanks brony! lol and don't be sad that a girl never flirted with you because its extremely uncomfortable (well for gays it is).

flirt back (a little reverse psycology) to see how they like it. ignore their advances, ask them to stop, or just tell them you're not interested.

I wouldn't be able to do that without cringing lol. I think girls think I am flirting with them when really I'm just being nice and making them laugh.

Not the answer you wanted to hear, but I think the best thing to do is tell her to leave you the fuck alone. If anybody makes fun of you, or calls you gay, it just shows how fucking ignorant they are. If anyone insults you, be the bigger man, and walk away and ignore them.

Don't let anybody offend you. Tell this girl you don't like it when she flirts with you, and tell her to stop.

Nobody actually makes fun of me. In my school there is no bullying really but Extreme joking lol. When I say they'll make fun of me they're just going to be cracking jokes cause that's what we do. I just don't want to have to come up with all those jokes for all those people lol.

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Tell her you have a gf outside of school and you don't like her advances.

Or, if you hate lying, tell her that you like someone else, but be as vague as possible.

[Lyra Heartstrings]

This is going to sound crazy, but..this is a great way for you to come out. It's an opportunity, I guess. Now, it's completely up to you as to whether or not you take it. But..I'm just saying, it'd make coming out a helluva lot easier.

[Bryce51]

My friends recently came out and it didn't change anything because we have been bros for awhile. But the earlier you come out the better. Good luck!

[Dunce]

If it were me, I would ask them why they're doing it. Instead of being awkward and uncomfortable just be like "What are you doing?" or "why are you doing that?". This will give you the chance to let them know it's not funny/cute.

[Burn007]

I really am a wrong person for this.....But il tell them to fuck off in a polite way :D And if they dont do it il just tell im to FUCK OFF!....Its a really harsh BUT honest way....and honesty is a lot.....I guess u just ask her does she like u...if u keep it like that u can break her hart (if u dont want to ofc) Be like " Hey im not sure what do you think about me but i just dont like u in "that" kind of way....." And then countinue with being friends crap ^^

[Pierce]

Thanks all for comments so far, still not sure what I'm going to do but I' definitely thinking about some things you said.