Virgin..

[Mavrec7]

Well, I just joined..someone told me about this forum and I didn't really see any mind for it.

I guess I'm writing this, because I find my self a 19 year old guy. No girl friend, didn't really consider seeking one. Few days ago I had this eager idea about sex..yes my community doesn't really support it, and quite strict about it. Yet if you truly want it, you'll do it.

People advised to go to a prostitute apartment and have some fun. However, others told me to never lose your virginity to a whore, or someone you don't love or really know.

Although I noticed most of people here are quite younger, I'm sure you can help in a way or two.


Thanks in advance

[Lyra Heartstrings]

I don't really think losing your virginity to a slut is a good idea.
A. No telling the multitude of STD's they have.
B. I see losing your virginity as something special, and a big part in a teens life. Find the right girl first.

[StoppingTime]

Teen Sexuality :arrow: Relationships and Dating. This will fit much better there.

As for your question, I'm not sure why people see sex as something they need to rush. It's likely that you will find someone who you truly enjoy, and it may be best to wait until then.
And would you really be satisfied in 20 years looking back on that moment with a prostitute, and could you say, "I did the right thing?"

[Love.Hate]

There is no rush, you'll develop an emotional connection to them without realising. Find the right person! someone who cares about you is so much more worth it, they'll really show you the true meaning of 'making love'. Honestly you wont regret waiting, but you may regret rushing into losing it to a stranger

[Jess]

There's no rush. Why do people find it a necessity to lose it? What's wrong with keeping it? Anyways you shouldn't rush...find someone you really care about, and cares about you.

[Fiction]

Many people end up loosing their virginity and regretting it once they find someone they really love. If in a few years time you end up finding someone you really love, how are you going to tell them you lost your virginity to a prostitute?

I wish i'd waited to lose my virginity, and I lost it to someone I had more of an emotional connection to than you will to a prostitute, so I can almost gurantee you're going to regret it a lot more.

Also, from the girls perspective, my boyfriend had quite a few one night stands and it makes me so jealous, and also makes me wonder how special it is to him when we have sex. If you have sex with a prostitute, any future girlfriends you have will feel how I do but worse.

[teen.jpg]

Find someone special. It will be worth the wait ...

[Mavrec7]

Alright, fine, I'll ask this girl out tomorrow, she's very pretty and funny. Hope this works out with me.

If something happens, tomorrow, I'll drop by and inform! :)

[dontfiguremeout]

You need to take it at your own time. And you need to do it with a girl you know really well, like actually have all the feelings for her! Because you need to do it with the right girl! I know for me I'll do it when I get married, since that's just what I believe in, but at least I know I'm going to do it with a girl I trust a lot.

[Lyra Heartstrings]

Alright, fine, I'll ask this girl out tomorrow, she's very pretty and funny. Hope this works out with me.

If something happens, tomorrow, I'll drop by and inform! :)

I'm glad you're making the correct decision. Good luck in your affairs~

[JustAGuy]

It's best saved for someone you care about

[Mavrec7]

Believe it or not! I did it, the girl I had a crush on her was abit keen on me, I asked her for a drink in the other day after last exam in the mid year seminar, we started making out before I know it..

I made it yesterday, we weren't even drunk, and it was mind blowing. She was a virgin aswell. Called her today's morning and she even liked it. (Guess I had a long time to rehearse! :P)


The forum was like a lucky ticket, I guess here my time has ended. Thanks for the help.
Have fun, and good luck guys...in life!

Chao!

[Taryn98]

Follow your heart. When the time is right, you'll know it. But don't go out and do it just to do it, especially not with some random person.