Did i just friendzone her?

[AtomiicFrogz]

Okay, so me and my friend went to a skating rink the other day and skated for a couple hours. Ive known for a while that she likes me. I just think that we're to good of friends to date. But i feel like we could. Does that any make sense at all? Like, Im not attracted to her but i feel like i should date her. Just because that i dont like being mean. And saying "I dont like you like that". Could hurt someones feelings. Does that make sense? what do i do? Sorry for the incoherrent babbling, i just dont wanna be mean.

[Castle of Glass]

ok, so by what you i read, yea you kinda did friendzone her(i know how it happens. happened to me too many times). you said that you should date her? is that what your gut says or your brain and thoughts? And no pair of people are too good of friends to date. But don't worry. you can salvage it still. You take control. You ask her out.

[AtomiicFrogz]

Like, in my head i feel like we're just friends.

[Gandalf]

Okay, so me and my friend went to a skating rink the other day and skated for a couple hours. Ive known for a while that she likes me. I just think that we're to good of friends to date. But i feel like we could. Does that any make sense at all? Like, Im not attracted to her but i feel like i should date her. Just because that i dont like being mean. And saying "I dont like you like that". Could hurt someones feelings. Does that make sense? what do i do? Sorry for the incoherrent babbling, i just dont wanna be mean.

You are good friends, if the subject arises in conversation I'd recommend just being tactile and honest. She'll understand that a relationship between you isn't nessacarily what you want or what would be best.

Make it clear you enjoy being friends and you want that to continue.

Hope I've helped :)

[Castle of Glass]

Like, in my head i feel like we're just friends.

but do you get a gut instinct that you should date her?

[AtomiicFrogz]

Sorta. Just to be nice and not hurt her feelings.

[Castle of Glass]

well, if it is to be nice, then it might not be the best idea. Stay friends with her though. Have you ever felt anything for her?

[AtomiicFrogz]

No. Thats what im saying. Like, i wouldnt ask her out. But if she brought it up i would like, have to. If i said no, it would hurt her feelings. Does that make sense?

[Castle of Glass]

No. Thats what im saying. Like, i wouldnt ask her out. But if she brought it up i would like, have to. If i said no, it would hurt her feelings. Does that make sense?

well, you don't have to do anything in life except die. DON'T KILL YOURSELF. well if she brought it up, then tell her gently. like you aren't ready for a relationship, or something along those lines. Of course it will hurt her. Who doesn't get hurt after asking someone out and getting regretted. but what ever you tell her, tell it to her Face to Face. never over the internet or phone. Face to Face

[JustAGuy]

Best thing to do is just be truthful tell her that you don't feel like it would work out and that we are close friends and risking it for something I don't think will work out is a risk I can not take.. That's what I would say