first time.

[billiam183]

A slightly misleading title; take note, im not a 'romantic' or anything by anymeans.

So the guy I've been seeing is really awesome (first guy I've dated). I've grown really strong feelings for him. And they are feelings I've never felt for another person. Our relationship is a secret, for reasons. I was wondering about his feelings toward me having not doubts, but questions. This is when he caught me off gaurd and told me that. He loves me. (I know this sounds pathetic, but) I have never told someone that or been told that (excluding the fam) and it was special for me and now theres butterflies and all that shit. Its awesome but the secrecy also sucks.

[ProudConservative]

Just go to your family and tell them about him. If they don't like it, tough shit.

I've been in one serious relationship, ended about a year ago, and she still hasn't told me the truth as to why. Story for another time when I'm not on my phone. Love is a strong word, just like hate is. If you guys love each other that much, make it public. Again, if someone doesn't like it, tough shit.

[Gandalf]

A slightly misleading title; take note, im not a 'romantic' or anything by anymeans.

So the guy I've been seeing is really awesome (first guy I've dated). I've grown really strong feelings for him. And they are feelings I've never felt for another person. Our relationship is a secret, for reasons. I was wondering about his feelings toward me having not doubts, but questions. This is when he caught me off gaurd and told me that. He loves me. (I know this sounds pathetic, but) I have never told someone that or been told that (excluding the fam) and it was special for me and now theres butterflies and all that shit. Its awesome but the secrecy also sucks.

If you are finding that secrecy is a large factor then perhaps you could speak to him about telling people about your relationship.

While the decision should be shared I would just recommend to be open and honest as much as possible. Don't take the decision without telling him first if the relationship is that private.

I hope I've helped, and if you need anythingelse just let us know :)

[JustAGuy]

Yeah me and a girlfriend were like that and it caused some issues until it was official sometimes the struggle is worth it

[billiam183]

If you are finding that secrecy is a large factor then perhaps you could speak to him about telling people about your relationship.

While the decision should be shared I would just recommend to be open and honest as much as possible. Don't take the decision without telling him first if the relationship is that private.

I hope I've helped, and if you need anythingelse just let us know :)

Well although our relationship is legal there is a slight age difference that would be disapproved of.

[Gandalf]

Well although our relationship is legal there is a slight age difference that would be disapproved of.

If you introduced each other to your family as friends first perhaps you could build some trust. If you did then when you make the step it might be taken better than those around you.

Please do tell me if that doesn't make sense.

[billiam183]

If you introduced each other to your family as friends first perhaps you could build some trust. If you did then when you make the step it might be taken better than those around you.

Please do tell me if that doesn't make sense.

Well im a minor and hes not. His parents are old school and as for mine. What mother wants their child dating an adult