Are they testing me?

[Steffanie2020]

Ever since I joined the GSA club (gay, straight, alliance) all the girls started treating me differently. Like they test me to see if I'm a lesbian (I am). They would take advantage of me (make me do favors for them EX: lend them money by sweet talking me) or try and see if I'm looking or staring at them, they would call me babe and hug me for LONG periods of time. I know it sounds stupid but I feel like their trying to see if I'm a lesbian. I wish they would ask me cause id be glad to tell them. how do I tell or make it obvious I'm gay without being random and weird??? I just want to be open about my sexuality and see who my real and true friends are. PLEASE, PLEASE HELP ME, I know I put a thread like this on here before but I didn't get enough answers to solve this problem.

[Mortal Coil]

It doesn't sound like they're testing you so much as assuming that you are one and trying to take advantage of you. People can be mean, but the best course of action is to tell them that yes, you are a lesbian, but no you will not stand for any of their shit if they try to take advantage of you, manipulate you or treat you differently because of it.

[Gandalf]

Ever since I joined the GSA club (gay, straight, alliance) all the girls started treating me differently. Like they test me to see if I'm a lesbian (I am). They would take advantage of me (make me do favors for them EX: lend them money by sweet talking me) or try and see if I'm looking or staring at them, they would call me babe and hug me for LONG periods of time. I know it sounds stupid but I feel like their trying to see if I'm a lesbian. I wish they would ask me cause id be glad to tell them. how do I tell or make it obvious I'm gay without being random and weird??? I just want to be open about my sexuality and see who my real and true friends are. PLEASE, PLEASE HELP ME, I know I put a thread like this on here before but I didn't get enough answers to solve this problem.

As Ellen said they may just be taking advantage of you, the quickest way of telling them would be to simply say "Yes I'm gay. Just please stop this."

You are in control of YOUR body, and you shouldn't bow down to anybody telling you to do something you aren't comfortable with.

Those who are your real friends won't bug you.

[xStar64]

It sounds like these people are trying to make you feel uncomfortable, which is just plain wrong. No one should test you to see if you'll do something you don't want to do. I say, just tell them you're homosexual and. Tell them to accept you for who you are or go be b****s somewhere else.

[dontfiguremeout]

How about talk to them?! See if you can find at least one person to connect with?! That should be a start!

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How about talk to them?! See if you can find at least one person to connect with?! That should be a start!

Dude, if we lived in a perfect world, talking would end it. But we don't. Talking does nothing with people like this.

Your best bet is to show how little they mean to you, stay by your true friends, and ignore them.

[Gandalf]

How about talk to them?! See if you can find at least one person to connect with?! That should be a start!

With due respect, this doesn't actually appear to have any relation to what the OP asked, I think they mean that people are being too personal and looking for her reactions, I don't think the OP is trying to connect with them.

OP: The simplest way to let them know is to tell them, as I said before basically: "Yes I am lesbian, and you are making me feel uncomfortable, please back off"

Be direct and assertive, if you're just honest they'll know to stop, but as I said before only people who respect your boundaries are really friends.