pulling out

[mynameisjane]

just out of curiosity, if i was gonna have sex and i told him to pull out when he's gonna cum, would that make it less satisfying for him?

[69_eyes]

yes it will, just get him to ware a condom. Much easier and safer

[mynameisjane]

no, i mean with a condom too.

[RaisingSand]

Well, condom's are generally safe, so you should be fine ... two kinds of birth control are more recommended though, as well as safer (the pill combined with the condom).
But to answer your question, guys almost always find it less satisfying if they have to pull out.

[0=]

Throbbing orgasm inside another throbbing, warm mass of flesh, or in midair like you just jacked off and let go, hmm...

[mynameisjane]

okay i understand.

sex is really wierd.

[RaisingSand]

Haha, yeah. It is. :)

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Yeah, he probably won't like it; most guys like to speed up as they orgasm (when they're masturbating). If they just stop as they orgasm (at least for me) it just feels like a waste 'cause it isn't half as satisfying. If he's wearing a condom it's perfectly safe to cum inside you, he just has to "pull out" AFTER that and get rid of that condom. If you really don't want him to do that you might want to consider "finishing him" yourself (you hands, oral sex, etc.) so that he can have an orgasm that is just as satisfying, and you feel safer (if that's what this is about).

[Aηdy]

I don't think the pulling out method is at all safe, before orgasm i can produce some semen. Use a condom and a pill.

[mynameisjane]

yeah, i said id use a condom too. but why use the condom if you're on the pill? the odds of getting pregnant are slim, most likely because you dont follow the directions. sure it doesnt protect from std's, but if you're with one guy and you know he hasnt been with a lot of people, and he says he doesnt have one, you're probably safe.

and how am i suppose to go on the pill. "hey, mom and dad, i need to make an appointment with the doctor. i want to have sex with my boyfriend so i want to go on the pill."

[RaisingSand]

The pills is only so reliable ... my friend Elisse was on it, and she had something that had 4% reconstituted grapefruit juice in it (avoid this if you're on the pill) and now she's two months pregnant.
And I was the result of the pill failing as well.
Bottom line: use condoms as well.

[tay2stay]

yea it would be less satisfying for him...
but ur bigger concern should be that u could still get pregnant even if he pulls out...and ur definitely still at risk for STDs

[Maverick]

yea it would be less satisfying for him...
but ur bigger concern should be that u could still get pregnant even if he pulls out...and ur definitely still at risk for STDs
Uh she said she'd still use a condom.

[tay2stay]

Uh she said she'd still use a condom.

oh, guess i didnt read the who thread...than why the heck would she make him pull out?

[Maverick]

oh, guess i didnt read the who thread...than why the heck would she make him pull out?
I know some who do to reduce the risk of pregnancy for peace of mind, etc.

[tay2stay]

I know some who do to reduce the risk of pregnancy for peace of mind, etc.

really? i dont think that'll help reduce the risk...it's how u put it on, and use it that makes it effective

[Serenity]

Remember that condoms do not provide a 100% guarantee that you will not get any STD's or get pregnant, thus pulling out reduces risk and provides some peace of mind.

[Maverick]

really? i dont think that'll help reduce the risk...it's how u put it on, and use it that makes it effective
Yeah how you put it on does make it effective, but if you don't ejaculate inside her there's less oppurtunity for sperm to leak out because it's done outside.

[Carrie1976]

If a guy is just near climax, I think it'd stop him if he has to pull out.

[spazattack33]

well if he did care too much then, he wouldnt really respect your opinion. and that opinion is to be baby free haha. and yeah for me
that would turn me on a lot :)