Advice on a relationship

[mikeybrooklyn]

Hey so i've been seeing this girl we're like friends wh benefits but nothing serious, the problem is that we live like a hour apart and we don't get to see each other much cuz we don't go to the same school. Wer havent done anythining more than kissing and some touching and i was thinking to ask her to be my girlfriend but idk what to do

[ackmedsgirl666]

well the thing is how long have you been seeing this girl?
thats the big question
you say you guys live an hour apart and barely see eachother as it is
so what makes you think it would work out as a relationship if it doesnt work as it is. im not trying to be rude or anything. but you asked for advice and i am giving it to you straight. i dont think it would work with this girl.. seeing as you guys live apart.... long distance relationships can be difficult to maintain... im sorry if i am coming apart as mean..... im just saying from personal experience.

[IAMWILL]

An hour away is not bad, but you do have to be able to see each other. Also, you need to make sure that she's commitex to only being and doing stuff with you, because lets face it its easy to get away with cheating when you live an hour apart and few to no mutual friends. I would recommend against it simply because its not worth it. Try and find someone else who you can see a few times a week or such. The relationship will be a lot easier to maintain.

[Taryn98]

Long distance is really hard, but if that's what you want then go for it. If you're fooling around, then she must like you. Just ask her directly and see where it goes.
Good luck

[JustAGuy]

Maybe talk to her about what you have been thinking about relationship wise get her opinion and how she feels and if you want it go after it!