(homo)sexual vs. emotional

[billiam183]

Kind of a jumbled mess of my feelings right now. If anyone has something to say, please dont hold back. Id actually like to talk because as you'll find, I cant talk to anyone about this.

So I've known no doubt I was attracted to males sexually and that I was by no means straight for some time. But iv only ever experienced physical attraction to a guy, not emotional. I've seen a lot of guys say things like this (Exp: I cannot see myself with a male). I've always felt this way until recently. The first guy I've ever had feelings for is now in my life. I can say that I have never felt this way for a guy. I know he has feelings for me too. But heres the thing. He is older than me, as in a legal adult + some and I have another year until it could be legal. That of coarse isnt stopping me. But our age and both of us not being out makes this all really sneaky and complicated. Also this is all so new to me and its hard to admit this to myself but I think im really falling for him. And maybe starting to. Love him. Because I've never felt like this im kinda scared of getting hurt. I dont easily grow feelings for someone so this isnt just some fling for me. Also, beacause of the secrecy, it sucks i cant tell anyone about him. I dont really know what im asking ( I guess im venting) but any advice or imput would be appreciated.

[CaliKiDD]

THIS. IS. CUTE. It gets better I promise. If you need anyone to talk to I'd be more than happy to talk to you. I'm gay and we all have these feelings.

[crispxtra]

You are discovering who you are and that is a wonderful thing. this is your first experience and you should really enjoy it but you have to be careful at the same time with not getting hurt as you said. So, you need to find a happy medium between the two. Enjoy your time with him, but take it slow in the steps that u will take in your relationship and if you love him, than you love him. Im happy for ya bro. :)

[StoppingTime]

Puberty 101 :arrow: Relationships and Dating. I think this will go better here. :)

[Lovelife090994]

I am in some ways confused but I know what I want. I want a girl for me, a girl I can trust and love. As for you? I never did like the idea of homosexuality but that doesn't mean you should stop just because of the words of another person. Follow your heart and keep it open, and love will always find its way in. Stay safe, stay smart, stay careful, stay blessed!


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Just a bit of art!

[iwannago]

i have the exact same. thing going on in my life right now!!! like EXACT except the guy in my story is my age, as for what i have to say, trust me i know falling for someone isnt always fun, but if things work out then great! and if your worried that they wont and you realllly like him, just imagine and know that theres someone just as great as he is.

[Twilly F. Sniper]

My story is nowhere near the same. I've had two gay crushes in the last 4 and only 4 years I knew that I liked men.

[billiam183]

THIS. IS. CUTE. It gets better I promise. If you need anyone to talk to I'd be more than happy to talk to you. I'm gay and we all have these feelings.

Hey man I appreciate it. Ill message you sometime but I cant respond to yours cuz it says I don't have enough posts.

My story is nowhere near the same. I've had two gay crushes in the last 4 and only 4 years I knew that I liked men.

Whatcdo mean by 'is nowhere near the same.

I merged your double posts. Please use the edit button next time, thanks. -StoppingTime